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I have always thought that prisons are not there to rehabilitate but to make sure these people leave prison angrier, or worse than when they got in. It assures the prisons they will come back. Job security for everyone in that wonderful thing they call the CORRECTIONS departments and JUSTICE system.
That is awful.
Mine still complains he don't get enough food. One hot dog and ten french fries some days, for dinner. What grown man can live on that. It is a way they can also make money on them because they have to order food from canteen and the prison's do get a percentage of what they buy. But yours can't even do that yet.
Praying he gets moved...SOON!!!
They said in this study that any average person would have problems dealing with it, but people with previous psychological problems really would end up with long term effects.
Mine can't stand being home long after he gets out. Has to be gone, doing something, anything. I know it's because of the life they live in there, so deprived of normalcy.
It doesn't deter them from doing anything wrong again, it pretty much pushes some of them to lash out to show whoever that they are free now and CAN do what they want, when they want.
I believe the ACLU has been trying to push the government to abolish solitary confinement except for extreme cases, where the person is totally awful. Nothing still happens and they are a powerful group.
I guess we will probably never know completely what they go through in there. Mine only tells me a portion of what happens. He shuts me out of many things. And that happens when he gets out too. He gets tense, won't talk to me, either sleeps, or vanishes for a few days. Usually back to bars and strangers who don't know him, that don't judge him, or try to tell him he is acting in a way that is not good. He don't want to be told ANYTHING. That is somewhat of his nature, brought on from an abusive step dad, but somewhat from being manic depressive/bipolar for years, which the prison is not addressing.
I hope that when he is in treatment they do something this time about that, but 10 out of 10 that were in his group last time for treatment are back in prison right now. None succeeded in staying sober. Tells you something about how their treatment program works.
One poor guy went out last time and had nowhere to live. Was homeless. The prison knew that he would be when he released him, and his caseworker did nothing to help find him a place to live. My guy just don't know how lucky he is to have me here time and time again, while that guy had nothing. I think he got himself in trouble on purpose to have a place to stay. Sad.
I actually took the criminal justice classes at a college, am halfway through to the degree, but can't get anymore loans. It was to read and learn how they operate and what they can and can't do.
Pretty much they can do whatever they want. And one chapter said that prison's are an INDUSTRY... a money making business. Oh yes they are.
The food they feed them is inadequate nutritionally. They feed them a majority of it with soy products. Soy in small quantities is ok. In excessive amounts is bad for your health. It can do many things like cause damage to major organs. There was a group of people in I believe it is Florida or Texas that had been in prison that are suing them for all their medical conditions brought on by the food they had to eat in prison. You can find the articles about it online.
This is going to scare you, but when you have a person you love in prison you have to become aware of everything, in case you have to fight for them. Sometimes there are things you can do, they think we don't know what they can get away with and what they can't. Once they know, then sometimes parts of it change.
Mine has several food allergies. They were refusing to give him his special diet. Nothing he said to the doctor, staff etc was helping. So using the fact they read our letters to them, I found a statute in the Constitution about their rights as a prisoner, their rights to adequate medical treatment and what can be done if they do not follow those laws. Wa la... they read it, and he got his diet he needed, and tests done for his health issues. Of course they never admitted why things changed.
7 AM---Breakfast.
12 Noon---Lunch
5 PM----Dinner.
They serve breakfast at 7 AM because everyone reports to work at 8 AM---except those working in the kitchen---and the work crews at a minimum have to eat early to get out on the road.
Lunch is served at noon, as that is when all the employees eat, and noon is obviously a proper time.
The serve dinner at 5 PM because many people who have jobs within the prison do not get off work until around 4 PM.
That is the procedure used regarding meals at every prison I was ever at or heard of.
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WhatAJoke~ your son's meal times are ridiculous.
My partner was in reception for more than three months. It was the longest anyone has ever been held in the reception facility where he was, we found out. It was unbelievably frustrating, but, it turned out well, because they were assessing him for a special program which cut his sentence by many months. He's out now, on parole.
I hope things move forward quickly for your son.
I do know that the guys who work in the chow hall leave very, very early, around 3 AM, and when they first arrive to work they eat their breakfast.
Other than that, I have never heard of them serving breakfast at 3 AM.
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But on a good note, I was notified that he was moved to a highly desired min facility yesterday!! And we were aware that wait was longer because of this. So, hoping this is much more positive for him! Maybe they will even eat at 'normal' times! ;-)
You, your son, and your family hit the jackpot when they placed him at a minimum security level facility.
He does NOT want to go to a medium security prison, as the other inmates there are more violent and much harder convicts than those at a lower security level.
He has absolutely nothing to worry about unless he does something very stupid like snitch on someone or get into debt and unable to pay.
Thought I would ease your mind so you can sleep better at night.
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PS His meal times will be more normal here.