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How to..... forget

dumbidiot
dumbidiot
I am in a predicament, at the moment i was talking to a friend of mine who just lost one of his friends to suicide and he was just shattered the whole time i was talking with him and he dint even know this person all that well, I too am suicidal and attempted to do it once, it failed and am constantly trying to find ways to succeed in it. so what i am asking is, is there's anyway to make all the people you matter to forget you really fast cause i have been trying to do that for these last years but i just seem to be making more friends and i don't understand what the hell am i doing wrong. Im a nice guy but i don't really want to be here anymore so what can i do to just make people forget about me really fast after i am gone, cause i really don't like to hurt people but i cant live anymore in this state.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Everything in your answer reads like a person sufferning depression. There is something terrible and something wonderful about people with depression
The terrible part is that thay are not aware that depression is their problem. You dont think you are despairing because you suffer with depression do you? You dont think you have a chemical deficiency causing you to think this way.
If only you did it would be so easy to solve. Which brings me on to the wonderful part.
If a person like you sees a doctor and has the depression treated they are transformed. They start to feel better about themselves and the despair that makes them suicidal gradually goes away. Ask anyone who has been there (there are plenty who have)
The Catch 22 is that you wont get the help with the problem because of the problem. If only you knew what you would feel like if you did.
Such a pity.
dumbidiot
dumbidiot
I ask for one simple answer and i just get bashed for asking a question, i see i cant find the help here anymore so dont worry about it. i want to end my life because it is not worth living to me anymore. i will not do it as soon as possible but there is some unfinished business i have to take care off first, i can wait 1 year to do it so its no big deal, and in that year i can drift away from the little family i have left. My father wont care, he told me to do it, my sister thinks im useless, my mother is dead so i hope i see her when i die. i have no girlfriend so lol who cares. Anyways i will not see a doctor of any kind at all, because i am not crazy i just want to end my life, people end theirs all the time and i am done waiting for a god to give me strenght when there is nothing to be done at all, will people be sad when i go, yea but they will forget me, they must and if i continue to live because of them, then they are selfish for not leting me go out of their lives. Death is the final answer for me, and i think i am making a good choice right now, i dont have much going for me so i dont need anymore reason to lie to myself that there is much at all to live for. thanks for the replies.
asteral
asteral
leave go far away and do it were you will never be found they will never know that you are dead just that you are not there any more
deleted_user
deleted_user
ASTERAL HOW DARE YOU MAKE THIS POST TO THIS PERSON? This is a young man in a serious condition who requires psychiatric intervention and HE CAN BE HELPED. THIS IS NOT A PLACE TO TELL SOMEONE WHO TO TAKE HIS LIFE. God forgive you.
dumbidiot
dumbidiot
No he is right though, i will have to do this, thanks for the encouragement.