Eye Cancers (Retinoblastomas) Support Group
Retinoblastoma is a cancer of the retina. Development of this tumor is initiated by mutations that inactivate both copies of the RB1 gene, which codes for the retinoblastoma protein. Until recently the only treatment was to remove the affected eyeball before the cancer spread. Chemotherapy is the treatment of choice for most unilateral cases.
I live in the UK where I run OcuMel UK, a charity supporting ocular melanoma sufferers. My father died of the cancer so I completely appreciate where you are coming from. If you want to email me you can do so via info@ocumeluk.org or you can find more information on www.ocumeluk.org.
Other places to look are the US Melanoma Research Foundation's CURE OM project www.cureom.org. They have a forum you could post in to find other Canadians. There are also Canadians on the ListServ OCU-MEL email list.
Hope this helps - let me know if you need anything.
Good luck
Kathryn