I'm a daughter and I'm leaving the nest... - My boyfriend is also leaving the nest too. I'm from Pennsylvania and He's from New York. He's on the border of CT so that makes the drive like 5 hour's for my mother. I've been staying here with Chris, my boyfriend and his family... Chris and I are ready to move out and have a place of our own. His mother has a thing with ''control'' she likes to be in control all the time and she is very ''interested'' in what we are doing. In other words she is nosey! Being so far away from my mom I was wanting a relationship with her... To ease the emptyness in my heart that I have because my mom isn't right here. We are moving downtown, which is five minutes from his parents. For the way his mother is acting you would think that we were moving to Florida! Now I know I'm probably being rude when I say that but I just feel if anyone should be really feeling empty and blue it should be my mother who lives 5 hour's away from us and wishes she was closer. Anyway, his mother has started to tell me how I need to do things and how I ''am not going to be putting holes in the walls'' - she is wanting to be right square in the middle of this stuff and it's creating some tension between her and I. Her son doesn't like it either... He talks back to her, I on the other hand just nod and keep my opinions to myself. - Any suggestions on what to do?!