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All About Love (AKA Heartache 101)
I'm lovesick. I'm melancholy. I'm reminiscent.. I miss him. I'm tired of loving him. And I'm tired of remembering him every time someone else remembers or says something that leads to him. I'm tired of missing him, only to work up the courage to call and hear a voice mail, then work up the courage to leave the voicemail only to be ignored.
But part of me thinks it's worth it, just because I hear his voice. It rips at my heart though.. Why must love be this way?
I can't get over him..
I feel so alone and I just want to go comfort myself with food..
I'm lovesick. I'm melancholy. I'm reminiscent.. I miss him. I'm tired of loving him. And I'm tired of remembering him every time someone else remembers or says something that leads to him. I'm tired of missing him, only to work up the courage to call and hear a voice mail, then work up the courage to leave the voicemail only to be ignored.
But part of me thinks it's worth it, just because I hear his voice. It rips at my heart though.. Why must love be this way?
I can't get over him..
I feel so alone and I just want to go comfort myself with food..
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AWWW! Sorry Sweetie! But when love is dead it is dead as a doornail. Best to shed your sorrow ASAP and get busy doing something else!
deleted_user
Love sucks doesn't it? You need a night out with the girls. Talk to your friends, or journal what you are feeling. Your emotions cannot go away until you address them. You may want to reach for food now, but just keep in mind that you may feel good for a moment, by the feelings are still going to be there.
deleted_user
I hope you have a strong support system, family, girlfriends, anyone who you can surround yourself with when love goes South. Don't try to do it alone. XOXO
hersong
i've been there. to be honest, i could still be there. but you have to live with it. honestly, that is the only way you will be ok. is live with the fact that it didnt work and it won't work. you will find someone who treats you better, i promise. who wants to do things for you and be with you. i know how you feel. i still sometimes think those things about my ex but i have come to terms with the fact that it didn't work, there will be no closure, and although i may think i miss him- he isn't the 'perfect' person he was in my head. things would never turn out right. you will find someone else, or they will find you. it is hard, but you just have to live with it. if you want to talk, i am here. but i really do know how you feel. and that is the best advice i can give. the sooner you accept it, the sooner you can move on. it may never be easy and you may always feel this way about him.
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