Large breasts draw attention that you may not be comfortable with, they are a change. I know how you feel in a way, as someone with an ED, we tend to have an area we obsess about changing because we don't like it. It's easier to focus on our body parts than our emotions.

ur right ..it is easier to focus on our bodies rather than emotions...i dont wanna deal with mine....yeah and i dont really wanna be noticed right now and so i wear big sweaters wich make me look bigger but they protect me and keep me hidden

does anyone else know what im talking about? pls offer feedback

i totally get what you are saying. i have a kinda different case, i lost, way to quickly and now am anorexia about 170 lbs. all over my body is this disgusting loose skin, that will never go away. my chest is just loose skin with a small boob at the end, and i wear sports breas a lot. i wish i had a chest, even small but i dont. i focus there and at my inner thighs, i know deep down it is skin, but they touch and i hate it. i trery and not look in the mirror, just a quick look, that seems to help me.

I understand not liking your chest to be so noticeable. I've had a traumatic experience which contributes even more dislike for my own female curves, but even before that experience I usually didn't like any attention being directed at my boobs. It's uncomfortable. I'm a little atypical in my gender identity I think because sometimes I don't feel like being either sex. Some days I just want to be genderless. If I had to pick a gender for myself though, I'd pick female, so I consider it lucky that I am a girl instead of a guy. Sorry you're having a hard time. Sometimes I wear sports bras or something "flattening" like that to reduce how much they stick out, and I never wear revealing tops. Sometimes I wear tight things, but I'm more comfortable in loose tops. I know this isn't the healthiest reply you've gotten, but right now I am also struggling with this issue. Thanks for sharing. I don't feel so alone.

thank u for replying:) im sorry ur struggling with this....yeah i dont like attention focused on my booobs..like im very uncomfortable all the time with my body..i hope u get better

I know it's easy for me to say "embrace your feminine curves" but I hope that you can eventually do this. I'm also uncomfortable with people looking at me, uncomfortable because I don't feel good about myself and feel very self conscious.

when my boobs grow it makes me mad as well! for me it isnt that im nessarily gaining weight but my boobs are forever changing!

to me things getting bigger means im gettig fatter nd i hate it

I used to hate my boobs but now I'm pretty confident with them. I have an odd tendency to gain weight in my boobs, followed by my hips. But more goes to my boobs. What was frustrating for me when I didn't like them was I couldn't lose enough weight to get a tiny chest. Even at my sickly anorexic weight I couldn't lose the chest. I honestly think that learning to love my chest was the easiest part of body acceptance. I'm a D cup now and proud of it! I have to remind myself that people pay thousands of dollars to have a chest like mine and that I should be thankful that I am "naturally gifted".

I actually did go through a similar stage as you. I started developing chest-wise in 5th grade. That was miserable. Not only was I tall compared to my peers now I had a chest. In 7th grade everyone could wear small little cute-sy bras...not me. It was the beginning of a hatred of my chest.

But, like I said I now love chest. I can assure you that if you work with the right frame of mind you will learn to love your chest. Just remember: it's a "gift" that some don't have due to various reasons (not born with it, illness like cancer, etc). That's how I like to think. Plus, having a larger chest draws attention upward than down to my bloated stomach. There's a reason for everything :)