I feel bad, I should now how to help him, I suffer with my own eating disorders but I am at a loss. my son is 27 and he has no control over quanity of food once he eats, he binges, doesn't eat for most of the day and then it is everything, I don't see him eat he lives with my nephew but I know. he has become very overweight, which I can relate to, but now I have anorexia, and I am worried. family is on his back to lose weight, telling him he is fat etc.. I hate it, why cant people understand that does not help just makes it worse. he has confided in me that he knows he needs to lose but then tries and goes to not much food or decides to run full out after not exercising in a very long time and gives up. I am worried about his health, I don't want him to think I am judging him, I want to be supportive, but I simply don't know what to do. any suggestions?