My daughter has Bulimia which she is fighting against and getting help with. She recently visited her Father in France for a few days. While she was there he emotionally abused and threatened her because her passport is in my surname and he wants her to change it. It's a long story but one that rears its' ugly head once in a while. He told her that next time he sees her he expects her to have changed her name or "he'll come knocking on her door!" He's also told her that when he goes to France again next year she won't be allowed to see him if she hasn't changed her name. When he tells her these things he rants on and on and swears at her. Trouble is she loves him and still wants to see him but I am convinced he's the cause of her ED and that she shouldn't have contact with him while he's like this, also, she doesn't want to change her name but is prepared to if it shuts him up! Do I help her stand up to him or do I help her get her name changed to pacify him?
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