I think a lot of use struggle wondering how much we are "worth" and at times feel worthless. A genuine feeling of satisfaction with who we are cant be achieved very rapidly and sometimes we have phases of bad luck when life drives us down. Meanwhile bear in mind that, as a human being, you are valuable (When I feel my life is worthless I look at my cat and think how much I believe her life is valuable and thus isnt my life also valuable?)

You might consider discussing your feelings ad values with a therapist or counsellor. Try too to find activities that make you feel good and allow yourself to enjoy what you can do - even if its something simple like reading a novel for example.

I can totally relate to having these feelings. I struggle with them on a daily basis. How to handle these feelings depends on your coping skills

What have you done in the.past to help with stressful situations?

Do me, exercise, writing, and talking about how I'm feeling really helps.

I too was obese and lost a lot of weight with thoughts that I would like myself and feel worthwhile and that people would be more willing to know me. it ended up I was in worse shape then before. I am still struggling with this, our worth is not a number on the scale, it is how we feel about ourselves and our willingness to work on it. I think it is a daily thing, writing, doing things you like. I have been tryng to say 1 positive thing about myself each day. good luck and keep posting

I don't know hoew to cope with these feelings... but I know exaclty how you feel... I'm there right now