Divorce after Twenty years together Community Group

I want to start something for those of us that were married for a long long time. I think that we face a little different issues than those who were dating for a few years or even married for shorter period of time. Being married for so long we have older children some have grandkids dealing with teenagers and their reaction to the divorice empty nesters dating after 40...

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Worst transition ever.....

MNMama
MNMama

Anyone else having to sign in 5 times to break into your account on this "new and improved" site, only to end up in all white page, dead ends?  This is the first time I could get in here after 12 attempts!  Wow.  I hope things start to work again, but if not, I wanted to let you all know how much you've helped me grow and how much I would miss you if I couldn't find my way back again.


I've been trying to break into my account for an hour now, and all my old hugs and notes are gone.  That and the tiny print in the GREAT BIG BOXES don't allow me to check out who's added something new to the older posts.   Not to be a Debbie Downer, but this new site sucks!  You all know I like to play with words, and use a lot of them, LOL, but there's nothing more to say.   I'll repeat it..... this new site sucks!


caligirl92354
caligirl92354
I do not like this new format. Like everyone else, I have had to reset my password. And, it's not user friendly and hard to navigate. Hang in there everyone.
Atpeacemary
Atpeacemary
No, I do not like it at all. Too confusing and unable to get my friend list in Alpha Order. I hate the colour for the user name. Very hard to read.
trisha9054
trisha9054
I made some progress on figuring this thing out. Click on your now tiny little picture. Mine is a picture of me riding Zee at a schooling event. I found my messages and all my hugs. Why can't DS send instructions on this wonderful (not) new disaster they have given us. I still can't find a home page so I know who is posting and who I might want to respond to.
dairytech
dairytech
Everytime I logged in I had to reset my password...however...once I received my notice of site change through my emai...and followed the link...I was able to just log on. Maybe it will take a week or so to work out all the kinks
kaycarol
kaycarol
I wish I could see posts! Can't find where they are.
MNMama
MNMama
OK, CowgirlKathi showed me where to lodge a complaint, share comments with the Daily Strength crew.... and I did. Go to the bottom of the page to "contact us." Please let them know what you're experiencing and, if you like, let them know what worked that's gone. I've been on DS for over 5 years now, and found this to be a great place for support. Hopefully they'll hear us and dial in on recovering what worked better on the old site. Good luck all.
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