This is for all us girls who have asked that question a MILLION TIMES. Why doesn't HE FEEL PAIN? WHY DOESN'T HE CRY? WHEN WILL HE GET HIS RIGHT???? When and Who will hold him responsible for his Kids, for his Debt, for his Responsibilities? We created these kids together, we created this debt together, we brought home the pets together, EVERYTHING WAS LINKED BETWEEN THE TWO OF US RIGHT? So why the HELL does he get to decide that he's just walking away like a child who doesn't like the way the game is going and can simply say DO'S OVER!!!!! or NO FAIR START AGAIN!!! OR MY FAVORITE I'M NOT PLAYING ANYMORE. I'm a teacher and at my school when we start to play a game the kids are made to know from the start that if they sign up to play THEY MUST SEE IT THROUGH TIL THE END OF THE GAME. No matter what the outcome as long as you are doing your best and playing fair then it's ok.

Some of these run away Husbands could take lessons from my Kindergartener's who NEVER QUIT!!! And see the game all the way through. Even though they may not hit a home run or score a goal they have a sense of PRIDE WHEN THEY SIMPLY DO THE RIGHT THING, PLAY FAIR, AND PLAY TO THEIR BEST ABILITY. NO QUITTING EVER!!!!!! I know alot of us hold on to the HOPE that our stbx would just GET THEIRS!!! Right? Let me tell you the wheels of Justice do turn very slowly but they do turn. The emotional Healing takes time a little bit at a time but, Healing does come. For over a year now since my H totally walked out on never looked back there has been times when I thought THIS IS NOT FAIR!!!!! I AM CARRYING ALL THE BAGGAGE, I'M CARRYING ALL THE RESPONSIBILITY, THE KIDS, THE PETS, THE DEBT, EVERYTHING!!! Why does he just get to call DO'S OVER!!!!!!! There were nights when I PRAYED TO GOD THAT HE WOULD FALL OFF A ROOF RIGHT ON HIS BIG FAT HEAD AND ACTUALLY FEEL SOME PAIN!

These are normal responses for anybody who has gone through the PAIN OF DIVORCE. There is a happy ending around the corner for all of us. Don't give up and always remember that Women grieve FIRST AND FAST, MEN GRIEVE LATER AND LONGER. And for the wheels of Justice turning slowly well, it's been a year and they FINALLY CAUGHT UP WITH HIM. $8,400 behind in support because he was self employed and fell under the radar. Now he has lost the business and took a job with a friends company and guess what happened as soon as his ssn was clocked in the system??? THAT'S RIGHT HELLO SWEET JUSTICE NOW THEY TAKE MOST OF HIS CHECKS FOR ME AND THE KIDS EVERY WEEK. PLUS ANY TAX RETURN, PLUS HE CAN'T EVEN REGISTER HIS TRUCK, OPEN A BANK ACCOUNT, APPLY FOR A LOAN, NOTHING!!!!! UNTIL IT'S ALL PAID UP.
He has to pay me back 50% of the money I have spent paying down the debt since he RAN LIKE A COWARD. SO MY FIRST AND FAST IS NOW SLOWLY COMING TO AND END AND GUESS WHAT? HIS LATER AND LONGER IS JUST STARTING...... SO WHEN PEOPLE SAY T NOW YOUR GETTING ALL YOUR SUPPORT EVERY MONTH AND YOUR EX IS SLOWLY CRASHING DOWN INTO THE ABYSS WHATCHA GONNA DO NOW???
I'M GOING TO DISNEYLAND!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Stay Strong Sisters and NEVER Give Up On Your Self!!!
Disney...............