I can't say thank you enough times for all of your post! I have tried to get on for ... like forever. The site kept kicking me out and making me log in again and again. I stayed in read only mode and all of you calmed my nerves with your good intentions. Today the admin solved the issue.

I have been married for 34 years and my husband decided he wanted to be separated and stay married. This happened mid March. GREAT.... for him. After much thought ... I said no way would I live this way. My husband is still at this point in time my friend. I filed for divorce and we both agreed on alimony and I would stay in the home. We will see the lawyer this week to sign the uncontested divorce papers.

I am still sad but know in my heart it is for the best. Over time we grew apart I have one daughter who supports us both in our decision except she thinks her father has lost his mind. LOL

I look forward to making new friends here. :)