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I met a friend in the uni, since the beginning we have been close friends well clearly not after I am surprised with his behaviour,
in my house everyday, he opens up to me, laughs with me and most of his weekends he spends it with me
at uni he is distanced and walks around with someone else, he doesnt open up with me AT ALL, he is very different, as if we had a strong bond during the times outside the uni
Yesterday was my worst day...at my room we couldn't stop crying..he apparently told me one of his "secrets" and one of them that he has a terminal illness, it got me very upset but confused due to his changing attitude towards me...if i was the only one who knows about it like he said then how come he isnt as close to me as outside the uni
is it because I buy him and give him lots of money? do you think he is using me?
should I trust him? what makes him lie like that badly and start crying
in my house everyday, he opens up to me, laughs with me and most of his weekends he spends it with me
at uni he is distanced and walks around with someone else, he doesnt open up with me AT ALL, he is very different, as if we had a strong bond during the times outside the uni
Yesterday was my worst day...at my room we couldn't stop crying..he apparently told me one of his "secrets" and one of them that he has a terminal illness, it got me very upset but confused due to his changing attitude towards me...if i was the only one who knows about it like he said then how come he isnt as close to me as outside the uni
is it because I buy him and give him lots of money? do you think he is using me?
should I trust him? what makes him lie like that badly and start crying
Maybe it's just me, but if I had a terminal illness, I really don't think I would be in Uni, I mean, what would be the point? I think I would be spending as much time as possible with loved ones.
I dunno...maybe I am just cynical.
Good luck to you!
yes.
When a person ignores their great friend, I don't care where they physically are, they need an attitude adjustment.
Huge red flag! Ask him why he can't acknowledge you while at school? Better walk up to him in front if the ope he's with and ask him why he's ignoring you.
What's with people? That's so rude of him.
I'm feeling really cranky reading some of these posts where people are getting treated shitty.
the problem is that it seems like he opens alot to me in my room but when we are at the uni he is WHOLE DIFFERENT GUY..not even close to the person whom i spoke to in my room, its like we never had his personal conversation or he was making it up..but why would he? and why would he say such a thing that he has an illness and start crying hard about it?
I am getting confused that i dont want to do the wrong action, to me inside my room he is a best friend, outside he is just a classmate
very coy and playful lil shit isn't he?