Depression Support Group
Depression is a real and debilitating condition that is often misunderstood by family and friends. Its meaning can range from a prolonged period of sadness to an actual mental illness with specific symptoms. Find and share experiences with others who are going through the same struggles.
things have been going well , until today. My boyfriend got slammed with child support papers for a kid he’s never met nor has signed the birth certificate for. She’s about two years old and he didn’t believe she was his. Now he has to go to court to do a paternity test. I know he doesn’t think she’s his, but I know she is. She looks just like him. I know he’s going to have to pay child support, and if she’s his rightfully so, but the thing is, I just found out I’m pregnant a few weeks ago. So I’ve been desperately saving money to try to prepare, and it’s been stressful just doing that. Now this happens and I know it’s going to be more money. I haven’t been in a situation like this, nor do I know much about how issues with child support work. Right now my main priority is my unborn child. It’s depressing me, because I feel like I’m not going to be able to do this with other bills every month as well. I make more money than my boyfriend now, so he probably couldn’t afford it if it happens without my help as well. I guess I just feel kind of stuck at the moment.
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I so exhausted from pain in my back that started Sunday but was mild and almost gone till I took bath that night and think I twisted or did something to take it to excruciating...I am away for work in a different state so traveled Monday and worked today then called my boss to fyi her about fact I am falling apart and walking like elderly person! I did telemed and they called in prednisone and...
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Can't wait to burn my pumpkin spice candle! National Coffee Day is coming up on the 29th so I hope to score up on a free coffee.
If you really want to have this kid then you are just going to have to suck it up and deal with it like an adult. You may have to get 2 jobs and never sleep, but that's what happens when you have a kid. Like the previous post said, no point in thinking what if. Just gotta deal with what is happening. Maybe tell your bf it's game over and he needs to step up to support you and 2 children since he had the bright idea of not using protection.