Depression Support Group

Depression is a real and debilitating condition that is often misunderstood by family and friends. Its meaning can range from a prolonged period of sadness to an actual mental illness with specific symptoms. Find and share experiences with others who are going through the same struggles.

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what a mess ...

RockNMetalChic
RockNMetalChic
i've made a real mess of my life this year- i joined this site to help me get over an ex and a bad expierence... but instead i just headed right back into the same bad situation with him over and over and over- and its cost me , my family, most of my friends- though one has stuck by my side no matter what - i love u girlie u know who u are... and more importantly i hurt people - one in particular a man who really does care for me--- who loves me- i just lost everything- including personal possessions and now i'm living with a friend and havin to depend on others for a roof over my head which isn't the best thing to do... so here i sit waiting to get a new job having no money- no car... and feeling like the biggest loser on earth---- where is the L on my forehead?................................
deleted_user
deleted_user
Things will get better. I have been there and lost everything for a guy that I loved. I did everything for him and I helped him so much and then he left me. I had nothing. It took time but I kind of got myself back together. Good luck. I am still here for you.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Yes you need to get away from the ex and try to find out who you are without a man in your life. It may be hard to be alone at first, but it will help your future, I promise.
Community LeaderThePepperMan
ThePepperMan
If the "L" stands for learning, then wear it proudly. Somebody had a very good post the other day about the four agreements.

http://miguelruiz.com/fouragreements.html

There is a lot of good stuff packed into those 4 things. Read it, get a picture of the you that you want to be in the near and moderate future, then make your own rules based on them and go for it.
Community LeaderWanderingVet
WanderingVet
One of the wonderful things about life is you can start it up over, and over, and over. All that you refer to right up to this moment is secondary to now. New beginning immediately, and you can make it what you want. If it goes awry, you have the great opportunity to start again. Life is great that way.