Btw I’m safe just miserable :/

I'm sorry you're feeling badly. Hope by now you're feeling better. Failure does a number on those of us suffering from depression. We can always have another chance for a do-over as long as we keep trying. Hugs and prayers.

What are you getting certified for? I'm glad to hear you're safe at least. I've had times recently where I didn't feel as safe alone with myself.

I’m trying to become a certified teacher.but my head is just going but ever since failing .i just really wish I knew how to be happy :(

Hello Musicgirl. Hey, be proud of yourself that you are trying to achieve something in your life. Whereas another person would crumble and wait for someone to pick up the pieces, like Humpy Dumpty, you are to be commended for trying to help yourself. No one said it would be easy, but if you persevere, continue to believe in yourself and learn to forgive yourself when you stumble, then you'll become a happier person than you percieve youself to be at the moment. You are worth every effort you are putting into your life to follow your dream.

Sending (((((hugs))))) and high fives.

my daughter had to take that freaking exam so many times, there are alot of people in the same boat as you.

she started feeling like crapp about herself. I told her to rest for a month and give herself a break before going at it again, I bought her book to help her prepare, and finally she passed it

MusicGirl, we can be our own worst enemies when we make mistakes. I have had to learn that I can't define myself by the things I do wrong. You are more than someone who didn't pass a certification test. What other things are you good at? What do you enjoy? I agree that maybe you should take a break. Do some things that you enjoy doing so that you can focus on something else for a while. I think a book to help you prepare for the test is a great idea. You can have another chance. Try again. Keep working at the goals you want. I have read of Abraham Lincoln's story. He ran for all kinds of offices, and he lost some elections yet he still had a major impact in his life. http://www.abrahamlincolnonline.org/lincoln/education/failures.htm You can still keep pursuing your dream. Keep making the choices to grow. Hugs! Praying you find what you need to do that.

>>I failed a certification exam for the third time .its killing my psychy

That's not good ... but it should not be lethal. Allowing something to kill you is ... uh .. well, .. what? You tell me.

Sorry you failed .... but they say, .. if you fail, try and try again. Study harder and longer ... then give it another try and you will probably WIN .... and live.

be kind to yourself... when u use the word fail , our mind, works over time with thoughts putting our self down.. and our minds go from 0 to 100 with these thoughts. be proud of what you are trying to do... keep trying. the greatest people did not climb right to top...they slid backwards every step forward they slid bk two..or more.. and picked themselves up and kept going trying again. why they became great from all those down curves they learned... no one fails.. they only fail if they quit trying... as long as you try, you are succeeding. your grade and what you feel inside about yourself, are two different things.. chin up, be proud of you, hugs

Please message. Blessings