I find you very interesting to talk to and i would very much miss not being able to talk to you. And i for one would never be able to forget you. Your a strong person and you can get through this. Im here to help if you need me. Hug

Everyone feels that way at times.
Its one of those times when people say, hey you need to snap out of it.
But its not that easy. We have no.motivation to make a change.
But if someone told You they wouldn't be missed. What would you say to them,? Its to bad we don't all have an Angel named Clarence. Like in the movie, Its a Wonderful Life.
But every living person in the world makes a difference to someone else's life. We're all part of one another.
You do make a difference. Don't ever think you don't.

Wow - your description sounded like me. I am also not interesting. I don’t stay up on current events as I have no interest in politics. I have no hobbies that would make interesting conversation. But I stopped caring about what others thought of me and have been concentrating on what makes me happy. It’s important that you start to think of yourself first. We are conditioned to think of others and not ourselves. Start telling yourself that you are important and deserve to be happy. Say it to yourself over and over every day until you believe it. Then start to look for ways to make yourself happy. You will eventually find something to give you peace. I discovered a love of gardening when I went through my breakup last year. Now I garden as therapy. I’m working on finding other things so I have several things to do when I need to feel better. Easy to say and hard to do but start saying to yourself now - I’m important and I deserve to be happy.

Thank you all for the words of encouragement and concern

You seem to be a very deeply feeling person, which is not common for a man, I think. That can be a plus if you know how to use it to your benefit. We have different personalities and temperaments, don't think that just because you don't have the traits of others means you're not as interesting or important. If you don't have many qualities that a very sociable person have, maybe it's because you have the qualities of the other kind of person, perhaps on the artistic side? philosophy or spiritual, etc... you can develop many traits too that will help you with your relationships, but first try to appreciate the qualities you already have now because that will be your foundation. Recognize your own worth, and then whether you do anything great or not, it wouldn't matter who knows it, because you experienced life, felt your existence. Cheers.

you're a very harsh judge of yourself. you don't need to impress anyone anyway. even if you are all those things and you are probably not, everyone has good and bad qualities. stick around.

So.. the 'only' thing you provide them with is their physical survival. :p

Nobody is interesting when they're down. They're excruciating. But you know what? that's not you. That's your current phase. And having a husband that is scintillating is not required. Having a husband that is alive is required.

Don't break their hearts. You'll come out of this funk at some point. Take care of your energy, take multivitamins, see a doctor and get medication if you need it.

How you feel is not always how things are. And depression gives us tunnel vision thinking that how things are now is how they will always be. I know for a fact that this is wrong.

I'm really sorry you feel that way. I have felt some of what you are feeling and still do. One method I try is, when I'm not feeling a connection with friends or family, or someone I have to work with, is ask them about something they're interested in. I oftentimes feel unimportant to my parents-but I realized that I don't make them feel important either. I try to ask my parents about some of the activities they are involved in. Even though, it may seem like an annoying 5 minutes, I feel as though they return the favor by feeling listened to when I want to express a event or something like that. It is a confidence boost for me - since I am pretty shy and outgoing - to ask someone something about what they might be interested in - a keychain, a book, a common connection. (ex: I saw a classmate had the same brand planner and I was asking her if she used any of the brand's accessories) - plus you might learn something new.
I hope this method can help build some strong relationships.