Depression Support Group

Depression is a real and debilitating condition that is often misunderstood by family and friends. Its meaning can range from a prolonged period of sadness to an actual mental illness with specific symptoms. Find and share experiences with others who are going through the same struggles.

24,601 Members

160,807 Posts

0 Online

paradise123 09/12/2018

It seem part of the reason I have been depressed is because I'm actually expecting. Although it may be good news to some but with my family a child out of wedlock is a no no. As if that's not enough I have to worry about the ladies at work and their judgements.I only started this job in Jan and am bearly coping, now I'm pregnant. I feel like disappearing. I'm 11weeks now n this has been hard to process. Instead of happiness I've been numb n in shock. I'm 32 and had hoped to have kids when I'm married, but that has not happened. It's rough

momenttaker 09/12/2018

Sorry to hear of your circumstances. Does the father know? That can play a factor on how the dice rolls. (from personal experience though, I don't recommend getting into a life-long commitment based on circumstance, keep that in mind.)

For a bit a positive perspective, You;ll have a new person who you will love unconditionally, can teach to love others unconditionally, and won't be judgmental until at least their preteens. Hugs!

paradise123 09/12/2018

The father does know and he is supportive @momentaker. It's just family and colleagues that I stress about. Hugs

Onlythelonely 09/18/2018

I am happy to hear that the father is supportive, and I pray that your family will come around. also and appreciate this miracle of life.
The most important thing right now is your health and the health of your baby. Have you had a check up with a doctor?

Join the Conversation