I know I have many good points, but I am getting no responds too.

I know a coworker that is on tinder, so if you just want sex, tinder is for you, if you want anything with substance, I would say tinder is definitely not for you.

I have given up on the dating sites myself, I am not young a beautiful and I have three children besides, I have been working on being ok with the idea that I will most likely be single the rest of my life. Just the way life has worked out for me. I am sick of getting depressed about, I want to have a life even if it doesn't involve someone else.

I remember your post a few days ago when you asked if you were a player because guys are very interested in you. You were hot stuff the other day, why not today? LOL. I know. Guys online are fickle. They can be really interested in you one day and then the next day you feel like you're a ghost trying to get attention but nobody can see you because you're invisible. Which is why I don't think online dating is very effective. It's only one way to meet people. But the better ways are to leave the house and go to places where guys will be, guys that you have shared interests with . Don't let the day to day changes of interested in your profile dictate your self worth. Most of those men are total dbags pretending to be something they're not. You said you were in school taking a class. Check out social events through your school. Many community colleges even have social events for people to meet at.