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I agree you are not bad, we ALL do things that would be considered "bad" by others at some point n time. Sometimes we even do bad things for the right reason, if that makes any sense.

I understand how you feel.
I think you might be too hard on yourself. Remember, you are only human. I know we all want to do the right thing. I hope you try. Sometimes we make mistakes. You would be surprised at how many people go around feeling upset over small things they do -- a lot of people just don't admit it. The fact that you acknowledge you feel bad is a good first step, at least you know you weren't supposed to do it. Next time if it starts to happen again you will see it beforehand and make sure you stop it as soon as possible. You're learning. Hang in there, buddy!

Hi gooch

Stopping by to give you 'good vibes' sand for you cute green sand pail and red shovel.

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i think you're good. we all have skeletons, i can remember back as far as third grade doing something mean to another child, we do stupid things sometimes.

depression is in my case caused from the past, traumas fuck up your brain.

you's be surpised what good he has instore for all those so called bad things. Besides there really are not any sins. Just teachers. There is nothing to be forgiven for... just learn from... they are there just be used as teachers.

Richard

gooch... quit beating yourself up.... we love ya mister..

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you are not a bad Gooch.

You are a good Gooch.

Its not Gooch's fault that his brain has depression.

It just is. Gooch coped with his depressed brain the best he could.

If Gooch hurt anyone, he didn't mean it.

thanks everyone for your kindness.
i have helped more than hurt others. and there is no terrible thing that i have done. i am having problems with my wife.
it seems to me that she is putting me down. and i am feeling guilty.
i am not sure what is going on. i know i am very sensitive to criticism from my wife and children. i am hurt easily and feel very upset inside and holding my anger and hurt inside. i try to tell when i am hurt without being angry at her. it is not working so good.

Gooch, I read your posts and replies and you are definitely a good person! Cut yourself some slack for being human. If you're evaluating yourself, and that's a good thing, see with the kind of loving eyes we see you with.

Hey, Gooch. all this is normal.

1. Everyone makes regrettable mistakes .. EVERYONE.
2. Those we love CAN hurt us the most. This goes for EVERYONE.
3. Forgiveness is a huge part of life. It is not so much what we have done as what we are doing and going to do. Without forgiveness .. life could not work. We must ALL forgive ourselves for anything we have done .. this allows us to continue living. It is natural, necessary, and part of the human condition.

When we forgive ourselves, all charges are dropped. Everything can then move forward.

what good thoughts. I think my wife and i need marriage therapy.
i am going to bring it up tonight. thanks again.

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