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I'm not familiar with the term nor am I a worshiper of Oprah, but I like that she's talking about scheduling time for all employees to meditate twice a day in the workplace, during work hours. I think this would be a great benefit to our society as a whole.
Still looking up the term....
If you run across anything speaking out against TM, here's why...
Transcendental refers to the goal (of some practitioners) of reaching/transcending another 'plane' of existence, of consciousness, or what have you.
Some believe that this opens practitioners up to attack from negative entities (demons). In fact, all meditation carries this danger, but TM got the brunt of the 'warnings' because it happened to be popular.
I do happen to believe in this, but I meditate on a very regular basis. If it freaks you out, say a prayer for protection or hold a religious object.
I don't mean to stray this convo into the religious and offend anybody...just wanted to give you a heads up because there's a decent amount online regarding the 'dangers' of meditation.
Yes, I believe they're real, but I'm not shoving. LOVE to meditate personally, and I hope you get some excellent results :) hugs to ya :)
The Beatles got into it. And many other celebrities.
"Om". Or Aum Is one mantra that many of us have probably heard of. Think of the typical image of someone meditating sitting on floor, crossed legs in yoga position. Hands resting on knees or held in air and thumb and finger touching and chanting "Om". I'm sure most are familiar with this representation of meditation.
I have chanted Om before as I was exploring meditation. It is relaxing and releases negative energy.
I think I will try it again. It's been a while.
It's like asking if swimming works.
I am going to attempt to read the book, hopefully my concentration will be enough to get me through..
Summerwind, I really appreciate your advice. I am a spiritual person, & will say a prayer before i begin..& hold my crucifix. The thought of demons scare the crap out of me. Thanks.
I think the point of meditation is not to follow a guru, or a particular structure, but to calm the mind by being still. The Maharishi Mahesh Yogi had a big following back when I was young, and I avoided it like the plague. (I do not follow the crowd!)
Now, I do Christian meditation. I just take a simple verse of the Bible like "Peace, I give you," and relax and repeat it slowly. Over the last 5 years, God has really done an amazing work being able to help me relax and it has really changed my outlook on life.
I believe DBT is a modern form of meditation, or mindfulness which has had a lot of success in treating people with mental illnesses.
Whichever form you chose, be consistent and patient. It takes a while to really begin to see results, but it is done without meds, and their side effects, so I think it is worth a try.
I did TM for years until I got really sick ... in the past couple of months I've been trying to get back into it.
If you can afford the program (it's not cheap), I highly recommend it. A friend of mine also just went through it and is getting a lot of benefit out of it (more relaxed, less stressed out, etc.) Of course, any kind of meditation is good for you.
The difference between TM and mindfulness meditation is that TM uses specific mantras that they give you, while mindfulness does not -- usually mindfulness techniques start with focusing on the breath, or on something in particular like walking, noticing every part of the movement of walking, etc.
It seems to me that other forms of meditation require a little more effort or focus. (Zen meditation requires sitting up straight -- which is a LOT of effort for those of us with bad backs! ;)
The emphasis in TM is that it should be very easy and nearly effortless. The "transcendental" aspect of it simply means that your body is deeply relaxed while your mind is in a very alert state, with an increase in alpha waves. Studies have shown that TM produces this state more consistently than other forms of meditation.
I don't buy the idea that TM or any other kind of meditation opens you up to negative entities or demons, and I've never heard of that occurring to anybody. Certain people may have more developed psychic abilities, and they would be more open to negative entities regardless of whether they meditate or not.
And people who are prone to psychotic episodes may be more likely to experience negative feelings when they get in such a relaxed state -- whether it's from meditation, hypnosis, falling asleep, etc. I agree with Summerwind that if you're worried about this kind of thing, you could do a visualization or say a prayer prior to meditating ...
For me, TM was/is easier than any other kind of meditation I tried (including mindfulness, Zen meditation, etc.) Oh, and yes, regardless of what kind of meditation you do, you should have no interruptions -- no phones ringing, no kids running around, etc. The whole point is to relax body and mind. :-)
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The book may be very informative, I have never heard of it, but sounds like an interesting read.
I would not worry about the demons, I have never heard of that. But, I am not an expert either. either. And, praying before you start meditation or anything else can't hurt. You know, prayer is a lot like meditation.
I wish you luck, you have your example there with you. You see the changes in your son. If it works for him, it will probably work for you.