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Well all of my friends are telling me that what I need to do is be honest and up front. This seems hard to me.
One of my friends (a couple) is getting on my last nerve. The guy (I am a female) calls me every freaking day. And I mean every day. Yesterday he texted while I was at work, invited me for in the afternoon then when I did not respond he called again while I was out.
He texted me while they were in Vegas last weekend. He texted me to say they were home.. Then called to say they were home. Every single day this week he has called me every *&^^*) day.
I met our mutual friend for a beer lastnight and was so nervous, but said I didn't think that scheduling a weekend away with them was going to work. He then went and put it on hold. He said I needed to talk to them. I have been through this before with him. I am so tired of it. I feel like screaming.
One of my friends (a couple) is getting on my last nerve. The guy (I am a female) calls me every freaking day. And I mean every day. Yesterday he texted while I was at work, invited me for in the afternoon then when I did not respond he called again while I was out.
He texted me while they were in Vegas last weekend. He texted me to say they were home.. Then called to say they were home. Every single day this week he has called me every *&^^*) day.
I met our mutual friend for a beer lastnight and was so nervous, but said I didn't think that scheduling a weekend away with them was going to work. He then went and put it on hold. He said I needed to talk to them. I have been through this before with him. I am so tired of it. I feel like screaming.
It sounds like your "friend' has more feelings than being 'just a friend'. It sounds like it's time to sit down with this person and ask what is really going on. Letting it build up like you are is only going to cause you to explode, and you may be sorry after doing so. Talk to the person!! No more guessing. Hugs GB
Forget dealing with the guy half of the couple. Call the woman half of the couple and tell her in no uncertain terms that you do NOT want her man calling or texting you. That it is creeping you out.
If she does not believe that he is calling and texting you that much be ready to show her evidence of all his calls and texts.
Sounds to me like he wants more from you than just being in the same resort town at the same time.