yeah suyb thats the one even when u know u are gonna get kicked in the teeth, again

kicked in the teeth? pete
humm that's abuse. And then yu get to really find out what true love is all about.

I've always wanted someone to love me as much I love them. I can usually tell when someone is sincere in the way their voice sounds. I've always said that I'd rather be told the truth and be hurt than to be lied to and be devastated. I am very lucky right now. I've found someone that gives out the same love that I give out.

Chris

sigh........ yep thats what i thought...... ok one more question- why do we always love the ones we can't have ? and the ones we can have seem less desirable?

ah but you miss my point.... which is you need to experience the conditional "love."

my how can u expierence it when u are keeping a wall up around ur heart so it won't be broken again- ok so maybe this post was not so hypothetical- i have someone i care about- but he is already using the word Love and making major life altering decisions and i don't know what to think of this and i'm afraid i will be a major dissapointment to him... i feel i already kinda am- i never call him- he calls me all the time, i don't write about him alot, he writes about me, i don't know, there are silent moments over the phone and it all scares me....

Whatever you just becareful. I feel this guys is very attatched to you and I'm worried.

thats a beast of an entirely different color...

let me sort my words a bit and I will come back ok?

I will tell you this... I new when I was in love, only been in love one time. I new he was my soul mate. I thought I had been in love but it was not true love. And I laid it all on the line. You only live once!

i had an obsessive ex... ithought that was love... but now i love someone more than they love me so im gonna be alone for a while till i find someone to ballance that out...

love is an emotion and emotions are a lie

From Alfred Lord Tennyson's poem In Memoriam:27, 1850:

I hold it true, whate'er befall;
I feel it, when I sorrow most;
'Tis better to have loved and lost
Than never to have loved at all.

Wow, thes are some pretty heavy thought provoking questions you have RockNMetal. Here are some of my experiences. I was in a relationship were he loved me more than I loved him. Although, the extra attentiveness to how I was feel was nice, it wore me down. He gave me 10 roses on our 1,000 day anniversary of dating. That was very sweet, but I didn't ever realize it had been that. Sadly, I ended up cheating on him a few times. This was in my early twenties. My now husband was one of the people I cheated with. I know my husband loves me, but he isn't as wrapped up in show it. I need someone who I know could stand up for me if I need it. My ex wasn't like that at all. You need to look into your self and determine what it is you need someone to be for you and then find that person. Love is what you need/want it to be. And only you know what you need/want.