I dont beleive in love..except I do believe in the love I have for children..probably because they will always be my kids......

I've thought about this one, too. I think your mom said that, because when you are more in love with someone than they are with you, you're going to be crushed if they leave. I feel like loving someone so much is throwing all of your eggs in one basket, whereas if your significant other loves you more than you love him/her, you feel a little safer. You don't need them as much and it's less of a heartache if they leave, but you don't worry about that as much. It's a weird thing.

sorry RockNMetal as this is kinda difficult with me cause Im a all or nothing lover..

wow i've been a all or nothing and everytime i get my heart ripped out and handed back to me- and so it really brought this to my mind ....

I don't know - I don't think I am a good enough actress to fake it well enough. Fortunately I am with someone I love very much - and he loves me equally.

How is love measured?

am with rockmetal, all or nothing at all, but yeah I have a zipper on my chest now,

ok so if u think of someone constantly/ want to be with them/ u do little things like write them love notes and say i love u often-and thats great- but the other person doesn't do these things as often - should u think maybe they just don't care or is it that they show their love in a different way?

they don't care-have no interest RockN. but that's just me.

dunno, me I want all of that, and it hurts like hell when the other doesnt, but maybe thats my insecurity

yes, I agree pete.
why keep givin and pourin out when yu don't feel the same way.

I think you need to experience all the different aspects of loving... loving someone more than they do; loving some one less than they you, infatuation; unconditional; conditional; love that has no limits; love that has limits; short and sweet love; long and enduring love....... all the different kinds of love possibilities.

And then one day love comes along that fits just right and it is good because you are ready for it.



btw... I'd have to say I am all in when I love someone too.....

people do love in different ways, and love is never the definition you thought it would be. we all see love through a different lens. your gut instinct usually tells you if someone doesn't care.

The greatest thing, is to love and be loved in return. (from the movie "The Boy With Green Hair)

but I think real love is unconditional, anything else is just liking someone, its that gut wrenching, butterfyey feeeling you get when u see the othr person, ah well my view anyway

yes pete, and yu know yu can never let go..