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Sounds like your dad is a real control freak, and he is using money to divide and conquer the family. The only way I know to fight that is as a united front where nobody accepts this behavior. But it may be way beyond that.
How dies your sister feel about all of this? Is this puppy a new shift in her favor, or is she a standard favorite? How about you mother? Are any other family members willing to work for a better situation?
Again, sorry that this is going on in your life.