The past year has been very up and down for me. In my impusiveness, I would tell lies about myself or my life to those around me. For the most part it was nothing major. However, it kept escalating. I know that it should of been easy to be honest but it wasn't. There is one guy that I was friends with. He loved me....literally loved me. I was not interested in him that way. He hung around thinking there may be a chance, even though I had said no. I never told him that I was seeing somone, very seriously. It got carried away and we became good friends and I didn't know how to be honest. I got married like a month ago. I hadnt even told him I was seeing someone. Through my course of therapy, I am working on being more forthright and doing more positive actions. He was one of those things I was going to fix. The problem is that he somehow found my facebook page with my new name on it. ( i had him and his friends blocked and I have intense privacy settings so I dont know how he even found it) So Monday morning....like 1am, I got a picture message text from him. It was just a pic of my facebook page. I responded saying that I didnt know how to tell him, im sorry and that I dont expect to hear back from him. (in a much longer, nicer way). So now I am concerned that he may do something to me......like damage my car or try to hurt me. I know it seems a little paranoid (which I may be). We have had conversations about if something horrible like that would happen or he finds me in a lie.....he said I would be cut from his life, I wouldnt be able to find him or anything.....so what do I do? I am scared but it could be the paranoia. Sorry, my mind is racing.