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Ok the other day my friend her ex I found out had this website about being happy is easy and he left her high and dry 7 months prego hasn't came to see the baby and hasn't paid a penny , so well I mad a few remarks on his site saying oh ya it's easy when u abandon ur child and not pay a penny and u got ur life together but u demand a player nitty test after planning a child so to delay things and so one , I didn't lie about nutting didn't put him down intentionally mostly wanted to make a point on how can he create that site tell people how to live to be happy and not even have his life remotely close to geathe
Please give advice I feel sick about it can I get in trouble for that ? By the law or just my own guilt for making somone feel like poo
Please give advice I feel sick about it can I get in trouble for that ? By the law or just my own guilt for making somone feel like poo
If it hurts when you "go like that", don't go like that!
A line from an old comedy routine. Most comedy is based from hard reality.
You will do better the next time you are confronted with this impulse, or you will not. It is your choice, you see.
Be at peace.
I wouldn't sweat the "getting in trouble" in the least in terms of any aspect of unlawfulness/ legality.
I would however concern myself more with whatever threats have been made to your physical safety. Harassment can be a double edged sword and since you have no intention of saying anything further to him on his site, then I would also utilize that same principle regarding his family... in other words: keep your mouth shut. Do not play into their intimidation and if you fear that they may cause you harm or if they are harassing you or your family, then by all means alert authorities, other family members, etc. This is your right.
In most cases like this, things will settle down in time and anger/ resentment will subside. I can tell just from your words that you are overwhelmed with anxiety and fear.. and you must remember that by playing into their threats, demands, etc... you are also exposing that weakness to him and his family. Again... let it go, keep your nose out of other peoples business if you aren't prepared or educated in regards to your rights/ their rights... regardless of your intentions or of the truth as you perceive it. You didn't do anyone any favors by what you posted.
There are other legal and responsible ways to bring dead-beat dads to justice. Your feelings may have been warranted, but it is up to your friend to bring charges against this man and to hold him accountable for what she feels is his responsibility in the matter.... It's not your place to interject, nor have you gone about it in the right way. Lesson learned.
even then I know people whom the dads quit there jobs and go job to job to get out of court order paying , I'm happy I don't have to deal but even still it's not my place to get into others business , but it really yerks me to know people pretending them selfs as honest hard working people whom r great when there not but I think I gotta find a way to live with the ugly truth of life :(
But then, that's just me, I could be wrong. :-)