Depression Support Group

Depression is a real and debilitating condition that is often misunderstood by family and friends. Its meaning can range from a prolonged period of sadness to an actual mental illness with specific symptoms. Find and share experiences with others who are going through the same struggles.

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kylestyle45 09/19/2013

I recently had to stop working a job I just got hired for at Panera Bread. I was only there for a week but I couldn't focus or handle the job at all with how I'm feeling mentally. I feel real bad about it since I quit after only a week but the manager was real cool about it and said when I'm feeling better that if they have a open spot that she would like to hire me back which was really nice to hear. I currently am seeing my therapist once a week and I try to do volunteer work a couple times a week. My dad seems to think I'm crazy for quiting my job and instead volunteering that pays no money. But I kinda like doing the volunteer work it makes me feel better about myself. I was wondering if anyone had any advice on what I can do for now till I feel better about myself and can do the job and work again.

Friend19 09/19/2013

My advice would be to continue doing what you are doing as it sounds like you got things right. If work is too much, then take a break if you can afford to. Continuing the volunteering is good because it will fill in the gaps on your resume and show that you like to keep busy and productive even when you aren't feeling well. I hope you start to feel better soon now that you have more time to focus on healing.

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kylestyle45 09/19/2013

Thanks. Yeah I just needed to focus on getting myself in a better place before I take on a job. I know I'm not making any money now and I'm tired of hearing that from people you know. I really can't put a price on my health and me feeling better at least that's what I think.

Friend19 09/19/2013

I agree with it 100%. I am working now and would really like to take some time off. I'm afraid my depression is being taken out on my costumers and it's only hurting my business. Not good.

kylestyle45 09/19/2013

It just sucks being my age and not being able to work and save up money so I don't have to live at home my whole life you know. I just gotta keep up with the therapy and work on building my self confidence up which can be hard when you have depression and anxiety. Which I'm sure you totally understand dealing with it yourself.

searching4sunshine 09/19/2013

Maybe you could look for a paying job that's similar to your volunteer work? If it was something that helped you feel good, not only could you focus better, but it could help with your mood. Good luck. :)

deleted_user 09/20/2013

on one hand, you have to value your health above all else. But on the other, if you don't push yourself a little youll never get anywhere. Do what youre comfortable with, then take on a little more (but not too much) and be sure to keep your head under control and your mental attitude right.

If you think you could handle a part time job, that could be an alternate solution. You'll get through it, if i can do it anyone can (and trust me, i was the worst of the bad). Depression is a beast that can be overcome, it just takes time and work.

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