Depression Support Group

Depression is a real and debilitating condition that is often misunderstood by family and friends. Its meaning can range from a prolonged period of sadness to an actual mental illness with specific symptoms. Find and share experiences with others who are going through the same struggles.

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ariadneoliver 05/27/2011

soooo, this woman that i know from morris dancing asks me to lend her a tenner, not a lot i know but like 3 days food to me. guess what, she no pay back.....so ive named and shamed her on facebook. im so bloody annoyed, i was good enough to lend her this money, im on my own with a child, have i gone ott by naming her on fb ? should i just have let it go ?

WanderingVet 05/27/2011

it all depends on how you feel .. now.

ariadneoliver 05/27/2011

i feel annoyed and shit on

deleted_user 05/27/2011

karmas a bitch honey!!!! she will get whats coming to her

WanderingVet 05/28/2011

I would say the Facebook 'thing' did not do you much good.

ariadneoliver 05/28/2011

well wv i wasnt gonna get paid anyway so wtf.

WanderingVet 05/28/2011

as long as you feel better .. I guess.

ariadneoliver 05/28/2011

awww sweetie you would rather i let her off ? yeah thats right people walk right over me im there to be treated like shit

alliemluv 05/28/2011

I just loaned my "buddy" 70 bucks on the fifth-was supposed to get it back in 3 days 'cause of some check crap. It's been 3 weeks now and I'm lowwwww. My grandmother always said "never a lender or borrower be" and now I know why--lol

WanderingVet 05/28/2011

>>you would rather i let her off ? yeah thats right people walk right over me im there to be treated like shit

You are missing my point. I don't care what you do. The important thing is what you do to yourself. If doing the facebook thing made you feel better then you did the right thing. If it didn't, then you didn't.

Your original quesion was "should i just have let it go ?" and only you have the answer to that.

deleted_user 05/28/2011

Consider it a lesson learned - Don't loan people money. Give it to them if you can but lower your expectations.

ariadneoliver 05/29/2011

maybe the fact that shes on fb crooning about going out tomorrow and having a good time wound me up....i must be more patient....there you go love have a great time with my money, in the meantime we have no gas but wtf as long as shes happy

WanderingVet 05/29/2011

believe me, I understand your feelings. This is not about her .. though . it is about you ... and your well being.

I think you should make a decision ... for your future. Neither a borrow or a lender be.

There is a LOT of wisdom in that. Trust me.

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