Two years ago I got an abortion and it was not a private matter. The father of the child was my friend and he openly discussed the matter at my job,and with mutal friends. I was scared to have another child because I already have one and was financially struggling. He did not understand and pleaded to me that he would help but at the time he was not working. He spent his time having lots of friends and smoking pot. I didn't trust he would be there because I already have child with a father who is not helping. Anyway, he made my life a living hell, friends treated me differently, people at work talked about me, and he went on a social networking site to post untrue hurtful things.It got to a point where I didn't want to leave my apartment unless it was to work. It was hard to bare until the beginning 2011. I thought I could move on and I finished a school program.
Here recently, a coworker came up to me and said she saw him. The coworker mentioned me to him and he insisted on telling the whole situation from the past to her. Hearing that hurt again. I thought he had moved on since he was married and has a child now. It makes me angry because he had to do nothing yet he acts as if he was the only one hurting. No one wants to make that decision, and everyday be reminded by small things. Makes you feel like you can never be happy or deserve to be happy. I want to confont him and say my peace but what good would it do.