Depression Support Group

Depression is a real and debilitating condition that is often misunderstood by family and friends. Its meaning can range from a prolonged period of sadness to an actual mental illness with specific symptoms. Find and share experiences with others who are going through the same struggles.

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volcano63 08/13/2018

For the first time in my life, I stayed home from work because I was too depressed to go in. The reason I gave was a hurt back, which is true (and is probably one of the reasons I'm depressed.) But I'm just so low and so mad I can't stand to go in. I'm 63 yo and I hate myself. I thought I'd be a lot more successful in life than I've turned out to be. The other day I saw a car with stickers that said, "I hate myself. I want to die." I'm wondering where in the hell she got that from.

Ghostwolf04 08/13/2018

My fiance is dealing with something similar and I'm worried sick about him. Not sure what to say to you. My fiance has been referred to a psychiatrist, maybe you should see a doctor? Idk how to help but if you are suffering badly enough to be unable to work, you should see a doctor.

cottontail 08/13/2018

I totally understand what you are saying. I am thinking of phoning in sick on Wednesday as I cannot face going in.
I also feel like I hate myself, I know how just horrible it feels.
I am 55 and feel a failure to all the youngsters where I work who seem to confident and competent.

I hope that maybe it gives you some comfort that you are not alone and that others are thinking of you.
take care and I hope that you feel better soon.

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