I think in this type of situation it is perfectly okay to cry, and let it all out. It's a part of grieving.

I am sorry and I agree it is normal to cry. Just be gentle with yourself. Hugs.

I want to talk to my parents and sister about it but they didn't even know I was pregnant or that I've been seeing my ex again. I'm not sure I want to shock them with all that news.

You should absolutely cry, and cry for as long as you need to, until there are no tears left. That is part of the grieving process. I think you will feel better after you do it. And as far as your guy going fishing, that just shows us how much you love this man to not stop him from a trip he has planned for a year. As for him going, men don't understand what women going through, not like another woman do.. I hope you are feeling better today. I've been thinking about you. Hugs GB

I'm so sorry for your loss. Gentle hugs

i do not know you or your ex...... and your loss kinda brings me to tears too.

I think a good cry is in order.

I am so sorry for your loss. I lost 3 and it was very difficult. Take all the time you need to feel better. I bottled alot of it up and eventually exploded. You don't have to pretend yo be ok. It is natural to be morning. Cry dont hold it in.

Oh LORD,

I can not imagine the pain of losing a child - let alone multiple. I am one of those people who would follow a strict limit of having no more than 1,000 children. :)

I love kids to no end (as i am sure you all do too). And I will not pretend to know why God does this. But I choose to believe that there are two big reasons. One - he believes that you CAN handle this horror. And two - he wanted that child to stay in heaven. You WILL see that child someday. And they will know your love and you will know their love

As tears flow down my face (literally) - I would like for you to recommend that you read a short book called "Heaven is for real". It is true story that I think may help you.

Gods blessings to you all who have lost something so precious. Please know that I love you all. And my heart breaks over your pain.

AWWW SWEETIE PLZ DONT BE TO HAR ON YOURSELF!!!,

HAVE A GOOD CRY! YOUR BE AMAZED AT HOW CLEANSING IT WILL BE JUST YOU LET IT OUT.

HUGGLES N CUDDLES N GOD BLESS DC

sorry for your loss hugs

I agree that a good cry may help. That may be needed in this situation.

Hi hon. Are you feeling any better today? (Monday)... Post again as often as you need to until you aren't hurting anymore. We are here for you, always. Hugs GB

It didn't really start to hit me until today. I had to focus on an exam that I had today but now that I took the exam I have nothing to focus on and it is really hitting me. I'm kind of frustrated with my ex though. We found out it was ectopic on Friday and he went fishing, which was ok, I insisted he go. But now he is home and I've been waiting since he got home from work at 5:30 to talk about it but he is working out right now. I know working out is important and everything, but oh my, I need to grieve this! I cannot hold it in anymore. I am breaking down and I'm doing it all alone. I can't help but be frustrated with him. I know he is my ex and I broke up with him 6 months ago, but obviously we were still seeing each other because he got me pregnant! I understand he may need his space from me, but right now I really need him so I can grieve this.

Just ask him to help you...tell him you have lost your child and how you are feeling. I hope that is the right advice...i think thats what i'd do...Many hugs xox