True friends wouldn't do that. You deserve better than that. People come and go in your life for a reason. Maybe ask if anything is wrong but besides that I wouldn't worry. Like I said, people will be in your life for a reason. Everyone serves a purpose

But I feel like its my own fault, I dont know what i did to drive them away. like was i to abrasive, to needy? I dont know.

@stronglove is right...people come and go...it's nothing to lose sleep over

It just bothers me alot, I'm trying to brush it off, but they are a big part of me, and I just want to know why they did this

Can I ask your age?

I would prefer not to say

Wow, that is a big shock to happen all of a sudden! I am really sorry this is happening to you. Is there any way you can talk to them and find out what happened?

one of the girls I asked, and she said that there was a snapchat where I made fun of her, so I asked for more details, she used to have a septum piercing and they had a snapchat filter with one and dark lipstick so I jokingly said I was her, but I didn't know that when she had that piercing she was in a bad place and doesn't wear it anymore, so when I did that she thought I was being rude to how she was then and she was not down for that. I told her that I meant it in a way where it's like you take your friends glasses and pretend to be them, a joke not serious at all. She understood and accepted my apology, I don't think she'll unblock me or if she does it'll take time, but I at least know, so that helps me. But I asked one of the other guys, and he claims he never blocked me so I'm not sure with him but I have to show him he did but were never alone to talk.

ture friends are not easy to find. The closes people are your family. I would say keep looking for friends. Keep meeting people. Someone who will help can be anyone. Someone who you will might not expect.

Sounds like you took a good step with your friend. Being open with people is important. Trying to work out conflicts is important. Saying we are sorry and accepting others' apologizes are important. You sound like you are on the right track. Keep reaching out! Have you ever read any of Henry Cloud's Boundaries' books? You might want to check them out. They may help! Blessings!

Here's the thing, it's been a few days since I apologized and she said she accepted my apology, but she is still acting the same way and I've just decided to ditch them both, the guy and girl both just want to date each other but can't because drama, and I did this and it apparently brought up bad memory's, but I never knew about those because she never tells me her problems. So I talked to another person and they said she probably hadn't forgiven me and is still pissed. And I'm fucking done with this uncessary drama, she is acting like her problems are the biggest in the world, when in reality I've spent the entire year alone and depressed and suicidal because of them. And I've been scared out of my mind that my grandma will forget me because she's developing Alzheimer's disease, and I even told one of them and they got super defensive saying that couldn't help me and I'm a fucking wreck because of them. And I'm pretty sure she's saying shot about me behind my back because I'm not talking to him anymore. It's just bull drama and I'm done with it, he has stopped talking to me to.