Well said.

I agree with you on many points in this post. I do think that sometimes people forget there are others that suffer because at the time..there problems seem so big due to the stress. Good thread.

very good post my friend.... *claps hands*

Gumper can you please stop.

Its so disappointing that you have to make this whole situation about you.

Yes you tried to help Gumper, but you involved people who I didnt want to know how I was feeling. What I say on DS i DO NOT expect to be circulated around my real life friend nor do I need to worry that you will contact my BOSS!!

And if you contact my DS friends because you and I have fallen out its not only shameful that you cant talk directly to me about it but insensitive to those you drag into the middle.

Any further problems like this should stay between the two of us,

woooo hoooo !!!!!!

i do agree!!!!!!

good thread

ok i understand what's going on. should have been off the boards i see.

yes it should have stayed off the boards.

oh no....sorry....didnt realise what was going on.....!!!!

So, hold on a moment, whenever you make posts about me it is OK?

But if I make a post about general issues, and some that cover you, its unacceptable?

I see now.

i have never seen her make a post about you...a journal entry yes...but not a post. and like you would enjoy having your business broadcasted all over the work place or to certain friends either.

There have been a few posts.

And as for telling her boss, I never did.

Someone says they are going to kill themselves, I do what I do, it ends like this woohoo.

Now that was about choc.

And who in gods name is rating this post.

i like this post sometimes we all need a gd slap and when my mates have done it to me its really what ive needed and ive appreciated it coz sometimes we all fall into the trap of me me me x

I had no idea that this thread dealt with personal issues here with another member. I do however believe that this thread will relate to many and make them think. Sometimes we all need reality to slap us in the face.

No you didnt tell my boss but you were going to... about an issue totally unrelated to work, when I wasn't even there. You could have cost me my career and its only thanks to Bmoney that you didn't.

If someone says they want to hurt themselves jumping up and telling the world isn't the way to go about helping them. ESPECIALLY when put in private on a supposedly anonymous board used for support.

You turned your back on me, and then claim you're my friend..
WELL THIS IS NOT FRIENDSHIP!

You have totally betrayed my trust, you have ruined DS for me now and you have upset not only me but my friends and you're still claiming your the one who is the victim here.

Look at your self Gumper and look at how you treat people before you yell at me for being ungrateful that you told my friends I was hurting myself.

If I want friends I have plenty here who I can trust. And I hope to god you weren't insinuating that I think I'm the only one in pain.

Ive never heard anything more hypocritical in my life!