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pinkpumpkin143 03/16/2011

I didn't know weather or not to send my feelings in a message or write in a journal so i decided to write on here in hope that maybe someone will be soo kind to give me a little support....

my dad seems to always come back to my mind. I don't like going to my parents house as much ever since my mom has taken my father back and I can't talk to her about it cuz she is so much in denial. He has been very inappropriate with me when I was younger and its something i can never forget. And the funny thing is, when i needed a little finical support my mom said that since i was independent she wasn't going to help but my dad gave me a few dollars here and there. I think my dad tires to be all sweet cuz he is trying to make sure i don't leave my mom's and his life! I am not close with my mom anymore, its like something is missing. I hate when i have to go to my parents when I am waiting for my boyfriend to get out of work so we can go home because we only have the one truck and my parents live like a block away from my work. when i sit there i have to listen to my dad made rude comments to my sister and then they wonder why she is going down a bad path! If someone called me names everyday I would be angry all the time too! Its five in the morning and i just can't sleep! I would go on and on but i am sure this post would get to long...

rac146 03/16/2011

I was up at 5 too :( It sucks that your feeling this way. I can't really offer any advice but it sounds like your really not close to your parents anymore because of the way the have acted towards you, which can be really hard. Hang in there dear and msg me later ((hugs))

meandthebeast 03/16/2011

I am so sorry pink... I can imagine that it is hard to be around your father after what he has done... I hate predators more then I can say, especially when its your own father.. And I hate that mothers are in denial... My mother was soooooooooooooooo in denial...

I hope things get better for you soon.. sorry you are feeling this way.

deleted_user 03/16/2011

maybe with the warmer weather coming, you can go to a park to wait for you boyfriend, you certainly don't need to be in a house like that. It might be good to ask you sister to meet you and talk to her about what is going on in her life. You might be able to help eachother thru this.
((Hugs and prayers))

deleted_user 03/17/2011

Tell the police what he did and send him to prison or at the very least get a restraining order against him. Hes a PEDAFILE! A CHILD MOLESTOR! He has probably done this to other kids, thats usually how molestors opperate-you might be able to help someone else by turning the pile of dog poop in. This happened with my oldest daughter and her so-called dad. She came and told me and i immediatly believed her and called the police. I then filed for two different restraining orders against him and 1 week later served him with divorce papers while he was in jail. He isn1t allowed any where near me or my daughters for life. He served a year in jail for what he did. Not long enough for me! Your mom is very insecure to take him back and she literally makes me want to vomit! Shame on her! You are more important any day of the week. I would go to therapy to talk this out, and I would let your father know that what he did wasn`t ok! TURN HIM IN! Don`t go to that house any more till that scum bag is gone. I wouldn`t even talk to your mom until she sees the light! I would try to get your sister away from him too!You both deserve better than that!!!!!!!!! I hope this helps. Be strong and turn his butt in!
Goodluck-take care of you first!!!!!
You Matter!!!!!!!!!!!

deleted_user 03/17/2011

I'm sorry you're hurting. It sounds like you and your sister basically raised yourselves since your father is dangerous and your mother apparently has put him ahead of her children. That sucks, and you deserve better. I hope that things improve financially so that you don't have to wait in that house although it probably helps your sister to have you around a bit. This is probably very small comfort, but when you become a parent you will probably be a very good one; you'll know how important your children's health and safety are.

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