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notcreative
I can't help it, I'm in a low place. I'm a SAHM but need to make money as we are sliding farther and farther into a debt abyss. (And no, because of an abuse relationship cannot leave child with father to go to a place of employment. cannot afford babysitter either) SO I am a technical artist, with no creativity at all. I started using some new equipment and even got a heat press to do apparel. My one "friend" decides that she is too curious and needs to come to my house for the sole purpose of secretly soaking in all the information she can so that she can go and buy herself all the supplies to do the same thing. Of course this friend is very pretty and has lots of friends so her network is larger. Immediately she is doing more business than I am. I am stuck in a small shitty house that needs major repairs and she has a just over a year old huge beautiful house. Her and her husband make more money than you can imagine and we are seriously in the hole. She never told me the underlying reason for her to come over, but in my heart I knew that she had an ulterior motive like this. She also ran back to her coworkers and spilled all of the information that took me MONTHS and YEARS to fully research and test. I'm just so sick over it. Its stuff that I pride myself on being able to say that the things will outlast the lower priced junk you find everywhere else.
So I have another mom "friend" who now decides she has to make apparel too and now is asking me to tell her which to get. Proprietary information. Look it up yourself.
I've been so sick over this. we NEED me to be profitable working from home, but with these "friends" directly competing with me, what the heck is the point. ready to burn my house down so the insurance can reimburse us for all the money I've spent on materials alone.
So I have another mom "friend" who now decides she has to make apparel too and now is asking me to tell her which to get. Proprietary information. Look it up yourself.
I've been so sick over this. we NEED me to be profitable working from home, but with these "friends" directly competing with me, what the heck is the point. ready to burn my house down so the insurance can reimburse us for all the money I've spent on materials alone.
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The original one, it is such a sucky situation because I really do like her as a friend. We were basically roommates in college. She sees that I need this to be a productive/profitable business yet is doing this. Just kills me
When I need friends the most, that's when they stab you in the back
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I am sorry to hear that all of this has happened to you. Those are not true friends that you are talking about; you need to let them go. A true friend would try to help you not work against you. You can still have a successful business: you may have to work harder than you already are and to think outside of the box, but you can do it. Don't give up and don't let them win. Maybe look outside of apparel and do something such as totes, hates, cups, car decals...get creative and you can come up with something. Wishing you love and luck.
For the person who asked if I'm still with my husband, yes. It is a stupid situation I can't say I regret because I got my beautiful baby from, but there are definite times I wish things were different. He doesn't have any live for me, I'm just a house mate/roommate. He also has an undiagnosed behaviour problem that causes a lot of the issues that is the reason I can't leave our son with him.
But I love him. The internal battle is real (& makes me a million times more depressed)
GBU
DRENA B
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