Lately my friends and religious leaders have been pressuring me to do stuff that I wouldn’t say is fun in the slightest.
I would just say no but I can’t I’m way to “nice” of a person to say that, and it bothers me that I’m getting so many requests and assignments, my life feels heavy on my shoulders.
My friends say things to my religious leaders in front of the group to volunteer me to do something and then the “spotlight” is pointed towards me, so if I say no I look heartless, and if I say yes I’m doing something that nobody else wants to do (including me).
What do I do? I can try avoiding my religion, but I’ll look like I’m inactive or need conversion.
I feel stuck and taken advantage of.
PS. I know this is technically supposed to be in Anxiety but it’s like a ghost town there.
so this is about him not me for once.He’s currently in one of his manic phases. Really cold towards me gets aggitated one minute then is his goofy happy self the next. He just sits and stares at his phone but if I try to have a talk with him he shuts down. He’s in one of those phases where he buys a lot of things we don’t need.i know he’s been formally diagnosed with bipolar but since I...
She used to rape me every weekend. She cheated on me and told everyone my secrets and made up rumours about me. I tried to get back with her and I believe she cheated on me again and is now living with someone else. In our last fight I hit her, I've never done that. I feel so much shame and I feel so alone. It all hurts.