the best place to spill it all is in your journal IMO.
and many get quite personal..but...your page IS your personal space. xoxo Di

Just go for it!!! Dont think !!! Just write it out. Here on DS people there to take care of u .. Instead of judge you... So u go gurl!!!

what you post on your page is your business you will not be judged most people here will answer any question that you ask i will

this is a public site. don't put anything into writing what you don't want the whole world to see...
if there is a person you have connected with who wants to know, you can ask if you can tell them. of course, there is nothing to stop you from writing it your journal.
just remember, once you put it out there, you may not be able to take it back!

Jenn, ppl here write some pretty personal stuff as you can see from some of the other posts. Ppl are generally kind although you have to know this is a public forum open to any and all. If you think it would help to just unload you can just put it in your journal and not in a discussion and although ppl can read your journal its not AS open as the discussion. Or you can wait until you find someone you connect with and send a message just to them. As with any web site you have to be careful whom to trust. If you want you can go to my profile and send me a message. I'm not sure if I have any answers for you but I am willing to listen. It sounds like you have lived more life than me in half the time but I do care and would be willing to listen. Take care. Cat

some people put things out in stages
like an introduciton to them with everytime
they write

I have lived through the toughest of times That I cannot change or escape. I just hope that others now will walk with me instead of having to travel my path alone.

Why don't you write your story out in your journal and then invite people who you trust and respect to read it??? Like pagan said... it's there for good tho.. once you've shared the info you can't just wipe it away... and pls remember some people do respond with 'hurtful' comments... mainly those with problems themselves who like to hurt others to feel better... you could always msg someone... thats more private... good luck!!!

You can edit and delete your journal entries hun, go for it, if people don't like it they don't hafta read it! I read your last couple of posts, my heart is breaking for you. It would probably be good for you to get it all out, I know that helps for me. Take care sweetheart xxx

Just write it in your journal and let it out. people are more often then not intrested and want to help. if your worried about an entry delete it or put only friends can read on it. its up to you.

I feel you must need to "spill your guts" or ya wouldnt of asked. So just try to do it in a nice way, be courteous and write..........you are not alone. God bless.

I dont think that there is such a thing as to personal here on DS. If you want to spill your guts then spill them. I would do it in your journal entries. That is where I spill mine. Even about my sexuality or lack there of right now. If someone doest want to read it then they dont have to. I have found alot of comfort and support through my journal entries.

from personal experience, I wrote my personal feelings in my journal about my husband, then while i was asleep one night, he got on the DS site and proceeded to read my journal. I only say this to let you know what could happen...

too personal for you- or for us? I am here to get help and give for what is needed. People have choice to read or not read here- just dont post what you might not want to have non-participants find- use the locked journal feature for this.