Depression Support Group

Depression is a real and debilitating condition that is often misunderstood by family and friends. Its meaning can range from a prolonged period of sadness to an actual mental illness with specific symptoms. Find and share experiences with others who are going through the same struggles.

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BRidd3305
BRidd3305

Hi, I'm Bryan. Honestly not sure what to say without sounding like I'm just complaining about my life to strangers to get attention. Not that I feel that is what this is, just hate the feeling of being a burden or hinderance to others, especially those I don't even know.


I guess to make a long story short, I have a rather long medical history that is kind of rare. Growing up I was pretty ignorant to all the conditions I have, so it my childhood was somewhat normal. Just a lot of hospital visits and doctors appointments. It's what is happening now that has shown me that I'm not like everyone else. In 3 years I've been hospitalized 54 times via emergencies. Everytime I see that those that go through similar situations are double my age or more. Doctors telling me constantly that their are no fixes to my conditions and that I just have to live with being this way, and to be honest it is killing me faster than these health conditions are....


Not sure of what I can do to even help ease the strain, but I'm hoping that talking things out and being a support for anyone who are facing problems of their own can help. So, I guess I'm here if anyone needs, and hoping that maybe I can ease this heaviness on my mind and heart.

Barry
Barry
Sometimes it eases the burden just to share it with someone else. We are listening.
reerose
reerose
dude. just let out on here there are very nice people on here who care. i been here 13 yrs. but watch out cos theres some weirdos who troll this site, biggest hugs to u. be well.
BeautifulRealm
BeautifulRealm
No worries, We here to share and care for each other.
Glad2Help
Glad2Help
People who complain just to get attention normally complain about other people’s behavior. You have a valid pain that you need to vent otherwise it will fester and blow up some day. By coming here you are showing humility that you need help and if we can give some helpful words or advice you are not being a burden because it also make us feel good when we know that we have helped someone. If you have friends and family who can support you and help you, lean on them and be thankful. Be grateful also for the positive things you have and lessen the focus on your condition. Consider also getting one of Joni Eareckson Tada’s books. It might lift up your spirits. Take it easy, my friend.
whatswrong19
whatswrong19
Most here try to help and also sometimes need help. I need help today, that's why I'm here.
Community LeaderWanderingVet
WanderingVet
Yes, indeed. We try to help. Sounds like you are an exceptional person with some rare medical problems. "In 3 years I've been hospitalized 54 times via emergencies."

Man ... that's rough. I don't know if it matters that you name some of your diagnoses .... because we are not likely able to help you much medically speaking. Bring 'em up if you wish. Might gain you some kind of unexpected support here.

Otherwise, .. what comes to my mind that would maybe give you something good is to become a public speaker since some of your conditions are rare.

Take to educating people and you may even become a celebrity.

Life is very tough for many people ... and those who make something of it have an advantage.

Like I say, given the info provided, not sure what else I can encourage.

I am glad you are here with us. I hope you find help, and will bet you can offer some too.
Anna1212
Anna1212
sorry for what you are going through. welcome
BRidd3305
BRidd3305
Wow, i didn't expect to see so many people reply. Thank you truly, all of you made today easier to go through. Thank you so much.
Community LeaderWanderingVet
WanderingVet
>>you made today easier to go through.

Very pleasing to hear. Thank you for the update.
doncornelius
doncornelius
Hey this is a good place to just let things out. Even if no one reads your post, sometimes it’s helpful just to let some steam out. I had bad asthma as a kid. Would spend almost every other weekend in the ER for treatment. I never thought anything about it, I guess I was to young to realize. thinking back on it it did keep me inside a lot. I couldn’t really play any sports. One time I begged to play little league not realizing that running and just the smell of the grass could give me an attack. In blamed my parents for me not having a great childhood. Long story short 30 plus years later and I smoke a pack of cigarettes a day and haven’t had an attack since 1990. Point is you never know what’s gonna happen and that’s ok. It’s hard at times but we gotta go where the wind blows. Welcome to DS and feel free to reach out if you ever want to talk.
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