Let me start off by saying I do love my mother. I just find her impossible to deal with. She complains that she is all alone ( 65 ) years old. Retired but not physically handicaped. Yet she doesn't want to bother with anyone. She is very judgemental of everyone ( example ) He's ugly, she's too tall , Oh what an awful name, she has a big nose, she's fat, etc. The last one is the best becayse she and I both are overweight and she obviously she's herself differently in the mirror. She picks everyone apart, but don't dare say anything she doesn't agree with or the fight is on. She thinks everyone should only like what she wants to watch on t. v. She will criticize you as you are channel surfing and have not even selected anything to watch yet. She complains noone calls, then when you call deliberately does not answer. I am the only sibling out of 5 that even deals with her. She pulls the suicide card and has attempted in past years when her ex- boyfriends have left her. I'm worried about her but she thinks she's always right and everyone else is wrong. I hope she is O.K over the holidays as I won't know because she chooses not to answer her phone. Now she is mad at me because she called my sister a nasty name and I told her she aught to be ashamed of herself for saying that about her daughter. Peace for the holidays would be nice!!