My father is one of the kindest souls I have ever known. My mother is kind, but she is also selfish, I don't mean she is a spoiled bratt kind of selfish, she is a selfish because she had to be in order to survive kind of selfish. Well, she is telling me and my daughter that my dad is getting to where he is out of breath after the least little activity. she said she has "told" him he needs to make an appointment with the doctor and la de daa, and she knows he isn't going to do it, but she wants to play up the drama, get all this attention because she is just soooo concerned about him and his health when in fucking reality, if she is so fucking concerned about HIM then why isn't SHE calling and making a dr's appointment for him, when she KNOWS he isn't going to do it for himself, WHY? because she can play the victim who needs all this sympathy because her husband is sick and won't go to the doctor. If she called and made the appointment and told him when it was, he would go, and not argue, but no she'd rather BASK in getting attention. Pisses me off to no end, and she tells me not to make the appointment for him because he would get mad if he knew she told. BULLSHIT. What ever, it fucking pisses me off.