I don't trust liars. Because if she did it once, she will do it again. It is a betrayal of the basic foundation of the relationship.

sorry heretic, all this lieing can work two ways in my book. sure you can not speak and hate her the rest of your life, but the fact remains you two were friends. Friends don't let Friends get by with bullshit.

He wasn't a serious relationship and he was her friend first, I just wish she didn't lie so easily.

I've seen her lie to other people and it always bothered me, now that it's me being lied to I feel like our friendship isn't special at all. Like what else don't I know?

He told me he was going to be helping her move next weekend, I talked to her last night and she told me nothing was new, didn't mention plans to move. I really think this isn't a friendship anymore.

I have absolutely no problems writing someone off who lies to me..... ESPECIALLY if they are a supposed 'friend'

Eph that!

I would call her on it then heretic. If she was a friend and you knew of her doing this to other friends and noone ever called her on it, then its time. If it was me, I would. Especially if I considered her a friend and it made me angry.

you can't be my friend and lie to me anyway....it just works that way, if I consider you a friend, then if you lie to me, I call you on it. Its that simple, if you get mad cause I called you on it and then you get mad cause you didn't fool me, then too bad. Fool me once, its your fault, Fool me twice its my fault

When you say you have seen her casually lie to others before, I just think it is her way of dealing with uncomfortable things. I don't think it is right to lie to friends. It is better to be honest. I also don't think she will change. I have known compulsive liers before. They can make you think that you are special and they just lie to other people, but they usually lie to everyone. Don't trust her anymore.

I agree with not having a friendship with someone who will lie to you. No trust with someone who is willing to lie.

You will never be able to trust her again.

You would have to be suspicious of everything she says.

What kind of friendship would that be?

It's the going with your ex that bothers me more than the lying. I mean really, what were they doing with your ex? Just where is your freinds head? I think I would distance myself for awhile until you sort your feelings out. No, personally, I would dump her/him like a rock!

I read an article recently that said something like "anyone who says they never lie is a liar". Most of us are not 100% truthful all of the time and sometimes it is to spare feelings (probably not usual to lie to go to a concert, though).

I think I would confront her - not argumentatively, just let her know that you know she lied about it. After that, go with your gut instinct.

Even if I wanted to maintain the friendship, I probably would not be able to. That's just the way it works. She probably wouldn't have been much of a friend anyway if I had witnessed her lying to others. Doesn't really matter who she is lying to, she is a liar. Not my type of frend.

Lot's of replies and it seems everyone says the same thing, can't be friends with a liar. I put up with it for so long because I only have 2-3 friends and I thought she was the best one. So it's a loss but for the best in the long run.

I think it's not cool to go with your ex and worse to lie about it. Doesn't seem like a great friend. I'm always about communication, so I would confront her...you can do it in an honest non-threatening way. Just tell her you know and you're hurt and see what she says and take it from there.

wondering if that poopsenders link is for real? i have an ex-dil i would LOVE to send that too! hate that bitch and poop is perfect for her....as far as the liar goes..liars are a complete waste of time and energy..enuf said