Mother's day great, so I call my sister as no one has called me, she called this AM at 11:30 to let me know that they are going out to dinner at 6pm, I had planned on going. I called my brother and he said Mom told me that, you said she is a crapy Mom, NOT, what I said was what was said is "you raised me no wonder I am so stubborn" I called sister and cancelled, called Mom and told here Happy Mothers Day, she said I'll see you at dinner , I said "No, thngs have changed" She said "Like what? so I told her, Why would I want to go to dinner with someone who is telling people that I am mean to her, of course she denied any of it and I said if you didn't say any of this to my brother how would he know?

I'm so frustraded, shes says nothing makes you happy, and she's right if it means living in her boundries.their has been so many times I've tried to set my boundries and each and every time she blasts me for them or totally disregards them..
Sorry for the long post, I'm just so upset with her manipulation.

Thanks for letting me vent...ARRRGH