Now i'm back to work so no longer have health insurance and can't afford dr.'s or effexor meds which are over140.00 a month. I'll be off cold turkey soon and really be losing it. My mother is 65 and always making excuses for herself. she always puts me on a guilt trip because she doesn't have a boyfriend or husband and I do. I can't give up my life to be by her side everyday because she doesn't want to be alone. she is retired. I work full time and have other resposibilities. She is very judgemental of people and pushes them away. Sometimes very opinionated and never will admit she is wrong. She always will argue and deny things she does.