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...annoy the piss out of me! And I really don't understand why people play them..
K so...
I meet guy on snowboarding trip over new years. We do the hanky panky.
We have a great time.
I assume it was just a vacation fling and don't expect to hear from him again.
We texts me within hours of getting back from the trip (we do live in the same city, btw)
Continues texting me all week.. attempting to make plans.. they don't work because we dont have free time at the same time.
He goes to mexico with his family for a week.
Halfway through the week he goes on facebook to send me a msg making sure i don't have plans for the night he gets back.
I am now getting the impression he is interested in my beyond just sleeping together.
He comes over the night he gets back.
We hang out for a bit.
Some hanky panky ensues.
He leaves at 1am to finish a project he has been working on with a guy. That annoys me.. and I intentionally do not try very hard to hide the fact.
Before he leaves he asks me to come to a concert with him this coming Friday.
I say maybe. Because.. well.. I'm fuckin annoyed that he is leaving at 1am for work... if he is just not comfortable staying over he should just say it, is the way I see it.
He texts me early the next morning letting me know the project is done, looks great, and "I'll see you soon miss sunshine!" (verbatim)
I don't hear from him at all Sunday, but he knows I am boarding all day so I didn't expect to.
I texted him this morning letting him know he missed out on some great snow on sunday.
Don't hear anything back.
Soooo.. mixed signals much????
It just annoys me because I'm the type that likes to be open and up front about my intentions... and I expect the same back.
After the trip I wasn't really looking for anything from him - thought he was cool and all, but it didn't really phase me to start dating him or anything... until I started getting some seriously strong signals that he wanted more than to just f*** me. So, naturally, the thoughts permeate and lead to me thinking "yeah.. I could totally date this guy"
But now... I have no ffriggin idea...
Am I just reading into things too much and seeing mixed signals that aren't really there?
Did I misread the signals that said he was interested?
Did I misread these latest signals that say he's just f*cking with my head?
Am I missing something else entirely?????
K so...
I meet guy on snowboarding trip over new years. We do the hanky panky.
We have a great time.
I assume it was just a vacation fling and don't expect to hear from him again.
We texts me within hours of getting back from the trip (we do live in the same city, btw)
Continues texting me all week.. attempting to make plans.. they don't work because we dont have free time at the same time.
He goes to mexico with his family for a week.
Halfway through the week he goes on facebook to send me a msg making sure i don't have plans for the night he gets back.
I am now getting the impression he is interested in my beyond just sleeping together.
He comes over the night he gets back.
We hang out for a bit.
Some hanky panky ensues.
He leaves at 1am to finish a project he has been working on with a guy. That annoys me.. and I intentionally do not try very hard to hide the fact.
Before he leaves he asks me to come to a concert with him this coming Friday.
I say maybe. Because.. well.. I'm fuckin annoyed that he is leaving at 1am for work... if he is just not comfortable staying over he should just say it, is the way I see it.
He texts me early the next morning letting me know the project is done, looks great, and "I'll see you soon miss sunshine!" (verbatim)
I don't hear from him at all Sunday, but he knows I am boarding all day so I didn't expect to.
I texted him this morning letting him know he missed out on some great snow on sunday.
Don't hear anything back.
Soooo.. mixed signals much????
It just annoys me because I'm the type that likes to be open and up front about my intentions... and I expect the same back.
After the trip I wasn't really looking for anything from him - thought he was cool and all, but it didn't really phase me to start dating him or anything... until I started getting some seriously strong signals that he wanted more than to just f*** me. So, naturally, the thoughts permeate and lead to me thinking "yeah.. I could totally date this guy"
But now... I have no ffriggin idea...
Am I just reading into things too much and seeing mixed signals that aren't really there?
Did I misread the signals that said he was interested?
Did I misread these latest signals that say he's just f*cking with my head?
Am I missing something else entirely?????
i really don't know what to say to you....in one statement you state it was just a fuck, no strings attached. in a different statement, you state you got really upset because he had to go to work and left you at 1am in the morning and that caused you to give him the cold shoulder. in a third statement, you states i don't know what to expect. do HE like me or not......your post is all over the place, and it appears your not sure what it is you want and possible soul searching that needs to be pursued on your behalf.
i'm not trying to be rude or cruel. just adding my opinion to your confusion, if it don't apply please don't take it personal. continue to pursue what makes u happy. however, if it does please take the necessary time needed to get to know who you really and pursue what really makes you happy
I say put him on the shelf with the others...
and do not text or call him...!