Oh Kook,
I so totally understand. Wish I didn't.
But you seem like an awesome guy; I think she's a lucky girl. Money comes and goes, but you have a good heart. Try not to give in to the despair. She loves you because you're lovable and entirely worthy!

Kook,

You are an awesome person. Hey you've given me advice that has really helped. It's been appreciated. You know we all suffer some form of mental illness here so trust us when we say 'ooo been there felt that' lol. Like I've felt all that you felt maybe a week ago! It's the act of picking yourself up that can be so hard. I know you can do it though. I don't really know what the story is with your girlfriend - so I can't shed any light on that. But what I want you to do if you can, is rewrite or rethink in your head that whole paragraph. Write the opposite of all those unhelpful thoughts you've listed. Because the thoughts that uniquely make up your values are there.

Hang in there,
Time heals

Sam :)

i don't think you're anyof those things. that's the depression talking. it sux. chin up luv. hang in there.

Kook

Depression makes us feel this way; I understand how you feel. I believe all of understand how you feel. From reading all you post and replies to other people here, I believe you are a very strong, caring and supportive person. As you stated you are mentally exhausted so you deserve to rest. It's not easy at times but you have been doing so well, be proud of yourself, we are all proud of you.

Franny loves you for who you are.....you are very worthy and deserving of her love. You love Franny .....I am sure she feels that
love. Your love for her is coming from your heart...very worthy !!!!!!!!!! I wish you well.

Kook, I understand from the core of my being. Why is it you are worried about loosing her? Has there been some indication of this happening?

Yeah, sounds like my week, definately. You're not alone. You do appear to be a very giving and kind person. There has to be something to say for that. Nothing like a guy who expresses himself, IMO. Maybe wait till the storm passes, eh?

meh...lovers come and go.

you will persevere.

peace~

thank you guys....whew...well im in a much better place now. Its funny.....hits ya like a ton of bricks....I am such a lucky man.

Ok im back....who needs what where and when.....lets take it on...lets hit it at all angles....we are not going to quit....and we are here to help.

Thank you so so much.

hugs to u kook.x

:) so glad you feel better.

hugs ................and more hugs.