It time to greive now, the tears must come. Maybe you would like to talk about it? How did he pass?

cancer stole him.

I'm sorry about your grandfather. There's nothing wrong with crying -the harder the better. You lost your grandfather -thats a very appropriate reason for crying your eyes out.

Sending you some hugs...I lost my gram over 16 years ago, my favorite uncle 11 years ago. I still miss them and often will have something remind me of them and cry.

It's hard when you lose someone you loved so much. Time will help but you will have days where it feels like no time has gone by. It's ok to cry. Think of your happy times with your Grandpa, cherish his memory and he will always live in your heart.

With death and of a relative time will heal some. We will be forever changed. With seperations I am not sure if it ever gets better. I still have dreams about my ex. My mom has been gone since '03 and I have wanted to dream about her. My dad remarried just a few months after her death and moved the new wife into our house. I use to dream that my mom was there and no one could see her. she was being ignored and was very sad. she was just there like watching everyone go on without her. When i use to go their to visit i would go sit in the bathroom and cry. About 2 weeks ago she came to me in my dreams. Finally, I can't remember but I know she was there. I cant wait for her to come again.

death is a thief! steals people in the night, steals people in their prime of life. Nothing matters... age, religion, color.... nothing. Death is a thief. One in which unfortunately I cannot find the strength to fight.

The best way to fight death is by taking good care of yourself...and allowing yourself to cry and grieve. That is a healthy part of grieving, and anybody who might tell you otherwise, is probably holding onto their own grief, which is not healthy, as you can read in the "broken heart" topic.

If you get stuck in your grief though, and feel like you are not moving through it over time, (give yourself time to grieve, though) you may need some antidepressants and/or therapy to help you move through.

How long ago did he die?

My dad died of cancer. I'm sorry that you and him and your family had to go through such a period of suffering. After he died I'd cry too (it took me about a year to cry) -for hours and then I was able sometimes to remember happy times in between the deep sorrow. It hurts so bad and I'm so so sorry. How long ago did he pass?

September 23, 2007. He died from cancer of his liver. Talking to my grandma, she said he was up watching t.v. and heard a loud pop in his stomach. Then he felt very tired, and went to lay down. The pop was poison bursting forth into his system. Killing him.

sorry you're so sad tonight, maybe crying your heart out is what you need to work through the pain...
i never met my grandfather, it must be such a blessing to have one you love so much... many hugs of comfort...

You are at a very vulnerable, and often most painful stage of grieving right now -- and it may take a month or two before you notice that you're really feeling better, but you should, and you will.

All the immediate tasks of taking care of things are done...the friends and relatives have gone home and stopped calling and sending cards.
And you are left with life without him, and that is often when full reality of what happens hits home.

So don't be dismayed by your pain and tears right now, it is expected.

It helped me a lot, to write letters to my son, even though I knew he wasn't there, just to get my feelings out.

See if you can find a way to memorialize your grandfather in some way. It will help you get a little closure, and at the same time, keep his rememberance.

If you aren't feeling better in a few weeks, that is when you might want to consider seeing your Dr. and finding out if you need some meds or grief therapy - there are therapists who specialize in just processing grief.