Im soo sorry that you have been treated badly! I have been there still there some days. I just want you to know that you do find people who are like you. YOu just have to be willing to put up with the bad to get to the good sometimes!! i'm here if you need me!

Please hang in and keep coming here for support. I feel the same way, I am sorry you are going thru this. I don't know why some people use others. I don't know why we let them. I do know that I can't control what they do but I can control what I do. Despite being hurt and used, I pretty much like me, I have alot of faults, but I'm working on them. Maybe thru that I'll find out why I'm allowing others to do bad to me. But even if I don't, I know I can come here and find love and support....and so can you!

Keep talking we're listening

I've had the same thing happen to me. The best thing you could do is just ignore the people who are treating you bad, that's the only choice you have. You don't deserve that treatment from people you care about, you've got to let them go because they aren't good for you & you need to realize that your well being comes first before any of them. That's the way you gotta see life.

You deserve to be loved!

They are good people out there. And you need to be active to meet them. But you are active - you are here :-)

And such toxic people (who hurt you) should be eliminated from your life. I know sometimes is difficult to do it completely, but at least you can significantly decrease your interactions with them.

You have this group to meet good people or you can try many other ways. And you have an experience from meeting bad people that could help you with new encounters.

Big smile :-D

What if im the one treating me bad? I don't allow unhealthy people or circumstances in my life, that is my major boundary I have with myself...yet I hurt myself by getting involved with a women who is unavailable. I am available, she is not reciprocating, yet I enable it to continue, even though it hurts to not get reciprocation. I am hurting myself because of old patterns I continue to repeat. Unavailable women/save women...its an old pattern.

My whole point is that sometimes it is easy to point the finger away from myself, when I am the one causing me to hurt when I do not take care of my needs and boundaries. It isn't the womens fault...she has her own issues, including hopefully recovering from breast cancer. I would never blame her for not reciprocating...she has free will.

You most certainly deserve to be loved by others. But don't forget that YOU also need to love YOU.

We are usually too critical about ourselves. And I do not believe that it is anyone fault - it could be problem with communication. And if you can not solve such problems is better to stop communication.

Your will to live isn't gone, it's just hiding for a little while. Please do something kind for yourself. I go through many times of despair. Distraction until it goes away helps. Bless you.

Take a look at my profile and see why I am here. I have a bit of experience with what you are dealing with.

Listen, there comes a time in our lives when we have to protect ourselves from those who harm us. This is a sad but unfortunate truth. My family has been angry at me for 30 years; and the older, wiser and stronger I become, the more they punish me. That has convinced me that the problem is theirs; not mine; this is a reflection on who they are as human beings and not on me. While we all wish those we want to be close to would return in kind, the truth is, not all will.

I have turned from looking towards my family for this connection and have turned to those who actually want me around. In doing this, I can have one of two attitudes: Attitude Negative says, "I'm settling for second best, I'm doing this because I'm not good enough for them," etc. Attitude Positive says, "Jees, how gloriously fortunate I am to have such people in my life who treat me with such friendship; and they are here when I need them most! I am so thankful!"

The other two are a little more difficult, my friend. "Letting Go" and "Forgiveness".

Good luck!