I don't know how spiritual you are but one of the things that helped me was when I let go of negative emotions and past judgments and placed all my problems in the Hands of God, or Higher Power or whatever you want to call the force behind the universe. I just looked up at the sky and said, "That's it! I am all done!, It's Your turn to take control of my life! I just can't do it anymore!" When I did that, all these miracles began happening in my life and I was able to get along great with family and friends! So I said a Prayer of thanks and those miracles just kept coming when increased my Faith and made me happier then I have ever been.

I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers,

God Bless

agree that the prayers needed are the thing that will help you to see daughter again...how old is she? where does she live? with mom? that seems unfair that the exwife would do the lies to anyone to cause a rift between their child and her father....pray about these things and experience tells me things will get better....hugs

I have a grand-daughter that thinks the same thing about me. She was 15 when her dad (my son) was killed in a car wreck. She is married with a 4yr. old daughter of her own now. She wrote me a scathing letter, said she wanted nothing to do with me. I always remembered her at Christmas, when she was little, we always made sure she had gifts and we always had her to my mothers for Christmas dinner and gift exchanges. When her dad died, I gave her portion of the insurance money so she could buy a car to attend college. I don't know what lies her mother's side told her about me but, she will walk right past me in a business or school and never make eye contact or speak. It's like I do not exist. I understand your feelings and I will be praying for you and, that your daughter has a change of heart. My son and his wife were divorced when he was killed.

I am so very sorry for you guys; using children against you is cruel to everybody involved. I saw bits and pieces of things like this when my kids were young and I coached their sports teams.

I suspect that God has special reconciliation plans for you when you all enter God's kingdom.

Gentle hugs

I I'm left it up to god 13 years ago . And he gave me pictures of her growing up never have I seen her in person or heard her voice ill never see her and the mother will pay for it in the end karma will get here

I am so sorry you don't get to see your daughter. That has to be hard especially this time of year. Sending hugs and prayers.