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Depression is a real and debilitating condition that is often misunderstood by family and friends. Its meaning can range from a prolonged period of sadness to an actual mental illness with specific symptoms. Find and share experiences with others who are going through the same struggles.

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Missingmy39
Missingmy39

I lost my wife in a tragic accident that happened at my parents place. Was 3 years ago and have been on antidepressants until recently. Finding a reason to even get out of bed in the morning is a constant struggle. I'm 43 in excellent shape but the energy just isn't there. I'm lost without her. Haven't moved on and don't see moving on in near future. Need help desperately.

dinahmorris
dinahmorris
Welcome to Daily Strength. I hope you find support here and the strength to go on. Do you work? Did your wife have parents or other family who also miss her terribly? Help is available from many different sources however it is finally up to you to make your life mean something. It may sound silly but if you can adopt a dog you may find that HAVING to get up to take it for a walk and meeting new people this way can help you find happiness again. Keep coming here and reaching out. Best wishes dinah x
Tired
Tired
There is a Widow and Widower group on Daily Strength you
might find help there.
Community LeaderThePepperMan
ThePepperMan
There is also a bereavement group, it has helped me a lot. I think that the W&W group is great, but they carry the spouse loss management process a much longer way. If you feel that you have not managed to grieve enough for your needs, please consider dropping into the bereavement group.

Moving on does not mean that we are being disrespectful of our loved one, it is the result of being able to accept what happened and to manage our life in a positive way. But it can be very hard as you have found out.

Welcome to DS, and I hope you find what you need here!
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